Quote From: jettavpersonally, i would want nothing to do with a person like this, if he has cheated otehrs out of their money, he will do the same with you. now, I do believe a person can change and all, but if he has complete control of the money, and has these type of secrets, I say get out while you can, don't fool your self.
I can't believe you would ever consider marrying a 41 year old, secretive liar. In my opinion you must not think much of yourself if that is the best you think you can do. I would recommend getting your own place for a while and learning how to manage money on your own. Then find a nice honest finacially mature man to be in relationship with.
