Quote From: becka_lynnhello everyone, a few months ago one of my best friends finally opened up and let out there biggest secret of all. for him, being gay meant giving up alot and having to tell ppl who may not agree with it. Ive supported him in every way that i could but for him he really need suppost from ALL members of his family which he has not recieved. He has since been kicked out of his house by his grandmother and she has not treated him like a human being since. How can i help my friend understand that its not really his fault?
For some reason this old message popped up on my screen the frist time I logged in. I hope if you do not read this response someone who needs to hear it does.
God does not make mistakes. No one chooses to be an outcast from society and the family they wish to give pride. Even those called "gay" are a creation of God. The only "choice" (gay or straight) is to honor God's creation with dignity and honor and love towards another human being or desecrate it with judgement, hate and hypocracy. Those who sit in judgment based on "christianity" have a fluffy hypocritical pillow to soften the fall they will see is not quite as high as the skelatons piled in their own rightous closets.
Those who preach, condemn and judge others, with "how to" get the heavenly pass into the blessed kingdom, are usually who we love the most or who we are convinced have the same judgment as God. How arrogant are those who use the bible to judge those who only dare to love.
I am straight but have watched the suffering of those who were born with no choice. I respect those who have honor and dignity within themselves. You can not change chromosones, you can change who you allow to be toxic while you live. I am certain your life has been filled with enough punishment for who you are. This world never lacks cruelty for those who feel deserving.
I hope you find the respect for yourself that I have for you and the person you were created to be.
