Hi I'am new here. I watch Dr.Phil and I love him. I been reading the message board and I saw this one about abuse and I felt I had to share my story too. I been married for 19 years and my husdand has nothing nice to to say to me, we get in a fight or he will say something that will hurt me deeply and all I want to do is cry. I watch Dr.Phil show and I understand where those women was coming from. I left my husband for a year and 2 months and we still fought and I told him I was tired of this and wouldn't talk to him. He told me that I ask for him to talk to me like he did and I told yeah I would in bed ask myself what can I do to get him to talk to me ugly. We are working our marriages and I feel like he hasn't changed any and the sad thing is my daughters tells me mom dad hasn't change at all. He told my oldest daughter stuff and my friend but he won't tell me what he said, he just say don't paid it any mind cause its his sugar talking.. So I don't know what to do.. I want to help others that is going though Abuse you know talk to them and listen to them. Thanks for listen to me and I hope this get posted. Becky
