Quote From: strongstufYou weren't the only one that saw it. It made me know there was hope for them and out of the two shows, that was the most poignant moment. It only takes a lot of "littles" to give each other and yet, it makes all the difference to the other's heart amd sould. They are on the right path and I pray they continue - and make it.
Thank you for those kind words. I can not even explain to anyone, nor do I expect anyone to feel what I felt the day of the tire experiment. We had 3 very early mornings of getting up at 5:30 am to work on projects all day long. We sometimes did not get back to the hotel until very late. Not to mention I live in a different time zone. By the day we did the tire challenge and I lifted the tire, I felt every ounce of energy drain from my whole body. I was sweating to death in that body suit and I felt the heat because whenever I need help my husband does it for me. My husband loves control and I have found it so easy to rely on him. I have NEVER had to do any maintenance on our cars ever. My dad was never handy with cars and would rather pay anyone to fix it for him. That was my breaking moment and watching the show I kept saying to myself "Quit Whining". After that challenge my husband and I talked for a long time, because it brought out a lot of emotion from me. When we arrived at the dance studio, my heart fell because my husband HATES to dance. I was so proud that he learned this dance, and he actually lead me. There were times that I forgot a move, but he LEAD ME! When we got back to the hotel my husband was so excited he even asked to dance again in the room!!!!! I (weirdly enough) learned alot from this lesson and our talk with Dr. Phil that maybe its Ok to not always be right, because Tom will be there to help me in the right direction. He is a very strong provider, a nurturing father, and now I have to allow him the space to be a wonderful husband.
Thanks,
Nichole
