Quote From: realgood2uLets modify your advice a bit and make it apply to your situation.
"Being obese does NOT help or solve anything!!! You become so obsessed with being obese, that you become TOO OBESE and end up putting your life more at risk!!! There certainly is NOTHING healthy about being OBESE & there is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING good that comes from having this disorder!!! I REALLY hope you realize the damage you're doing to yourself, not only physically but also emotionally & mentally and I seriously hope you get the help you need to break out of this before its too late!!! PLEASE, PLEASE GET SOME HELP, ASAP!!! "
Your advice is probably very heartfelt, but is mostly a search for self-justification. There is almost zero chance that you will go from 300 lbs to anorexic. Wanting and doing are two different things. Since you do not try, you do not fail. Very safe for you. Heard about the Dr. Phil Weight Loss program?
Yes....I agree. Anorexia is a disease and it is not a choice. Just thought I'd tell you I agree and like the way you used her quote.
JUlie