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July 24, 2005, 8:10 pm PDT

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hi

why is it that its hard to find a girl friend to love and be friends with and be happy ?

im not good looking -disabe -can't see or hear to good to drive or work . beleave me you would not want to be in my shoes .seem the ladys i meet only what one thing money and sex and good looking man . i don't drink or smoke or take bad drugs .

i dont even think dr.phil ever talk about people like me who have a hard time finding the right one .

in some ways i think he puts us down .sure there are man who are lazy and etc .but im not them .

what i see in a person is what they are on the in side .and not what they look like on

the out side . same that the way life is here . but i keep going .becouse i know sooner or later there some one out there for me

Where do you go to meet girls? and how do you carry yourself? (what kind of attitude do you have? Are you a positive person? and how do you view life? Are you happy with yourself?). maybe just a few questions to ask yourself. You seem like a very positive person and if that is the case, I believe you will find that right person. Be true to your self and enjoy life and don't fall for the losers. Life is so full of great things and opportunities, don't be so hard on your self. be happy,polite, and set goals and strive for them, know what you want in a girl and don't settle for less.I believe it is more imporant to see a person from the inside then from the out as looks can be very deceiving. And I do know a little about how you are feeling. When I was dating my now husband, I was a littel over weight and I really wasn't that pretty, there was a young girl interested in him and thought he could do better and she was flirting around and really trying to get his attention. Yea, she was prettier and younger, even did slightly better then me in school, but it was me who he was falling for and it was me who he thought was the greatest. She may have had the looks but I had what it took to get the man I wanted. Though I was happy with life as a single person and all, there were times when I didn't think I was worth having, but my now husband proved all that wrong and he added so much more spark to my already good life. Be positive, kind and respect and love your self and life will definetly treat you well.
 


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