Replies to '07/06 Baby Wars'

(Looks at how many men have given birth and nursed throughout the years, looks at anatomy picture for man's uterus).  I don't think that' s even possible.  Sorry, had to say that   :)  Being funny   :D  

  

  

This is a perfect example of man hating sexism. Lets consider adding one key point to women's slogan regards abortion: 

" Her body, her choice... HER *responsibility* ! " 

In an age where women have MANY means to void legal parenthood, POST coitally, it is nothing more and nothing less than man hating sexism to DENY men any such legal rights. 

Lets remember that abortion ISN'T a natural thing, that Legal Abandon Laws ( In 40+ states now ) 

AREN'T natural things, and so on.  

Either men should get legal post coital choices or women should have such post-coital choices 

as men get right now: NONE. 

Anything else is pure misandrous sexism. Ptui. 

Oh, one more point to the sow who posted this sexism: Men do the lion's share of the work that keeps society running. When women are ready to do *as much and as well*, then maybe equal 

rights at work might be tolerated. Hows you like that ? 

Uh, hold on there stupormom.   Divorced or unmarried men like Matt Dubay are on the hook for 18+ years of child support when a woman has a kid.  How the heck do you think a man comes up with $500 per month for 18 years?  Here a clue -- he uses his BODY to earn that money.   If he refuses, off to jail!

Women, on the other hand, have completed their physical burden after 9 months.  Let's see, 9 months vs. 18 years -- who's got the greater burden?  Who bears greater consequences?

Women get the choices, men get the responsibilities, and that's just how the women want to keep things.  It's about time somebody stood up for equal reproductive rights for men!

The day a woman can biologically concieve without "something a man produces from his body" being used, is the day a man does not have a choice. 

  

Women fought for RIGHTS and now that men want the same you all have silly excuses. 

  

Hooray for you and your ability with words!!

The day women truly act as EQUALS, pull their own weight, knock that chip off their shoulder, stop acting like their vagina is a golden key to rule the world, and stop being a deceiving species, then and only then, they can make some choices.

He had a choice - don't take anyone's word for anything and USE A CONDOM.  Yes, just like any other form of birth control - except abstaining - there is always a risk of a pregnancy for both sides.     

   

Just because you told her you weren't ready to be a father - you seem to think that makes you immune from any consequences. What kind of thought process is that?  Maybe she was just as surprised as you when she came up pregnant.  You seem hell bent on "you have a right to play, but nothing should happen you don't want to happen?"   What world do you live in?    

   

It's a gamble no matter who you are - have sex, have a chance of getting pregnant.  You played the game, now pay the price.  Nothing in this world comes without a price.  You were not responsible in your actions - no condom - so now be a big boy and pay the price.   If you always take someone else's word that Nothing can happen, then you are positively naive or downright dumb - take control of your own life and actions - wear a condom.  

   

With your attitude you are doing this child a huge favor by staying out of its life.  You say you want children some day on your own time schedule and on your own terms - I feel sorry for that child you have then - what if he or she doesn't live up to your expectations?  What "defense" will you use then?  What responsibility will you take then?  What if the child you do choose to have is not as smart, as atheletic, not as good-looking, or whatever else you can dream up - as you expected it to be?  Whose "fault" is it going to be then?  The genes from the mother?  How will you handle that?  I can't bear to think of what you will eventually put a child through down the road.   

   

I wonder also if you realize how whiny, irresponsible, and down right immature you sounded on the show?  I wonder how your parents feel right now seeing you and knowing they have a beautiful grandchild out there who you want to deny?  I hope they at least do the right thing and know this child,  if they have a better attitude than you do.   

   

I wonder what you do for a living?  I wonder how you will handle the business world in the years to come when life doesn't always play "fair" with you?  My guess is "not well".   

   

The man who appeared with you did you no credit at all.  Not your lawyer - the other one.  He seemed very combative, egotisical and not well informed.  You did yourself and your cause no good at all on the show today.  My guess is that more people laughed at you and your supporter than listened, much less sympathized.  Grow up.   

   

   

   

Amen to that!!!!! I have 4 children and ya know we are the ones that are taking the risks that comes with pregnancy the diabetes hypertension and so on. He may have to pay child support  but he doesn't have to stay at home take care of the child take them to the doctor, go through all the ups and downs being sick, doing home work, don't get me wrong i enjoy everyday with my children and wouldn't change a thing, but this guy is a big LOSER!! He seems like my 4 yr old have a temper tantrum because he didn't get his way. Well suck it up buddy next time don't have sex or wear a rain coat-see you did have a choice.

AMEN, AMEN, AMEN!!!!!!!! 

I have given birth and rasing my 4 beautiful daughters, all natural childbirth and all nursed. When they can do what we do, they can choose. Sorry buddy don't want the chance of having children, then don't play house no matter what she says. Because ultimately whether you wear a condom or not, the chance is there. I was on depo when I got pregnant w/ my 3rd. Contraception is not 100% sure and men need to realize that if they choose to have sex, I do not care how protected it is, they are still choosing the possibility of becoming fathers if a pregnancy is achived.  

I hope that this moron looses in court and they DOUBLE up on his child support. If he does not want any part of the child's life, his problem. When he is older and wiser he will realize the screw up that he made! That is a beautiful baby and mom is very pretty. I am sure she can find a real man to be a dad and provide a secure family. However he is not off the hook since he made the choice to have unprotected sex. Nobody put a gun in his head! So pay up buddy- she is only 8 months and 18 is a long time away!!!!!!