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April 21, 2006, 2:23 pm PDT

Be a Man

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MATT MADE THE UNCONSIOUS DECISION TO BECOME A FATHER WHEN HE CHOSE TO HAVE SEX.  THERE IS ALWAYS THAT POSSIBILITY!!!  HE NEEDS TO STEP UP TO THE PLATE, BE A MAN AND FINANCIALLY SUPPORT HIS DAUGHTER.  IF HE CHOOSES NOT TO BE A PART OF HER LIFE, THAT WOULD PROBABLY BE IN HER BEST INTEREST SINCE HE DEFINITELY WOULD NOT BE AN ACCEPTABLE ROLE MODEL IN HER LIFE.
  I agree Matt needs to step up and do the right thing. it is part of him as well as her,and it takes two to tango. I see it all around today with high school children ending up being parents at way too young of an age. This is for everyone,even adults you need to think things through,before you do anything. This world is tough enough as it is with out having an unwanted child being thrown into the mix.  
 
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April 21, 2006, 2:43 pm PDT

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MATT MADE THE UNCONSIOUS DECISION TO BECOME A FATHER WHEN HE CHOSE TO HAVE SEX.  THERE IS ALWAYS THAT POSSIBILITY!!!  HE NEEDS TO STEP UP TO THE PLATE, BE A MAN AND FINANCIALLY SUPPORT HIS DAUGHTER.  IF HE CHOOSES NOT TO BE A PART OF HER LIFE, THAT WOULD PROBABLY BE IN HER BEST INTEREST SINCE HE DEFINITELY WOULD NOT BE AN ACCEPTABLE ROLE MODEL IN HER LIFE.
  Isn't it a fact that there is a reason for the law to begin with?  I not exactly sure how many years ago it became a law but there was time when men weren't responsible for there actions and there were millions of women on welfare because they didn't have anyone to help raise there babies.  Isn't this why there is a law making the man responsible for there actions?  Even if they don't like it.  Is it the laws fault that the man couldn't learn from his mistakes?  Maybe women have more rights because they are the ones who carry it.  Ya think man would have more rights about a babys future if they gained weight ate vitamins, exercised and ate right so that baby is healthy?  Then you get to experience the most pain you will ever experience.  And hey maybe it goes fast maybe it don't.  I think that if women have to carry it they should be reimbursed for all the damages.  You think stretch marks are attractive?  I think not.  Lets talk diapers....if you paid me a dollar a diaper I would still not like it.   How about all the things you want them to learn and all the things you can only hope they listen to because you love them and you want them to not make your mistakes.  What about all the weirdos you don't want them to talk to and all the peers that you don't want them hanging out with.  There is more to life then just who is at fault and who should and shouldn't be responsible.  Just for a week take the baby in your heart and you will never let her go.  I can't imagine being Matt and sitting there for all the world to see how imature he is and how petty he can make the life of a child seem.  Poor elizabeth.  And when Matt is older and mature.  When he wants to be a part of something.  He will be constantly reminded of his true abandonment of Elizabeth.  Like they tell us women.  Its a pain you forget.  I think its Gods way of helping us to procreate.  hahaha
 


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