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October 13, 2006, 2:24 pm PDT

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Hi, I have not been diagnosed with HIV, but my brother is positive and my friend was recently in the hospital for HIV/AIDs complications. He is now doing ok and out of the hospital. I went to visit him in the hospital and while I was leaving, I gave  him a hug and a kiss on the cheek. I have since been worried that I could have contracted the virus by kissing him on the cheek while he was sick in the hospital! I just recently got married when I was 34 and in my 20s I was pretty wild. I worked as a stripper and I slept with 4 of my customers. I also drank a lot of alcohol back then and would have lots of unprotected sex and one-night stands. I even worked at a "massage" parlor for 1 month, too. My life is totally different now, but sometimes I wonder, "what if I have HIV from the life I lead in my 20s?" I went and got tested a few years ago, but I never went back for the results. I feel sure if I was positive they would of called me, though. I'm thinking of buying that home HIV kit soon. I really don't think I have it, but I would really like the peace of mind knowing for sure. Any thoughts would be appreciated. Thanks.

By all means get tested.  That way you can get the treatment you need to stay alive.  I know someone that found out they have it ten years ago.  He is still living a very active full life.  When they told me they were positive, I thought he was telling me they had the dealth sentence and they have lived ten years.  SO BE SURE AND GET TESTED NOW!!

Let me know how it turns out.  The way they found out is he went to give blood and they tested them.  Good luck.

 
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May 15, 2007, 12:51 am PDT

Get tested.

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Hi, I have not been diagnosed with HIV, but my brother is positive and my friend was recently in the hospital for HIV/AIDs complications. He is now doing ok and out of the hospital. I went to visit him in the hospital and while I was leaving, I gave  him a hug and a kiss on the cheek. I have since been worried that I could have contracted the virus by kissing him on the cheek while he was sick in the hospital! I just recently got married when I was 34 and in my 20s I was pretty wild. I worked as a stripper and I slept with 4 of my customers. I also drank a lot of alcohol back then and would have lots of unprotected sex and one-night stands. I even worked at a "massage" parlor for 1 month, too. My life is totally different now, but sometimes I wonder, "what if I have HIV from the life I lead in my 20s?" I went and got tested a few years ago, but I never went back for the results. I feel sure if I was positive they would of called me, though. I'm thinking of buying that home HIV kit soon. I really don't think I have it, but I would really like the peace of mind knowing for sure. Any thoughts would be appreciated. Thanks.
 As an HIV/AIDS instructor for the Red Cross I can tell you that a hug and a kiss on the cheek will NOT infect you. It's the risky behavior from your previous activities you mentioned. You were tested and never got results. Go back and get tested again and this time stay for the results. You will receive pre-test counseling and post-test counseling. If you tested positive you will get the information you need to deal with it. Knowing is much better than not knowing. HIV is spread at an alarming rate by people who really don't thing they have it and don't get tested. Remember, it is not who you are but what you do that puts you at risk.
 
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October 2, 2007, 4:30 pm PDT

Who Do You Think You Are??????

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Hi, I have not been diagnosed with HIV, but my brother is positive and my friend was recently in the hospital for HIV/AIDs complications. He is now doing ok and out of the hospital. I went to visit him in the hospital and while I was leaving, I gave  him a hug and a kiss on the cheek. I have since been worried that I could have contracted the virus by kissing him on the cheek while he was sick in the hospital! I just recently got married when I was 34 and in my 20s I was pretty wild. I worked as a stripper and I slept with 4 of my customers. I also drank a lot of alcohol back then and would have lots of unprotected sex and one-night stands. I even worked at a "massage" parlor for 1 month, too. My life is totally different now, but sometimes I wonder, "what if I have HIV from the life I lead in my 20s?" I went and got tested a few years ago, but I never went back for the results. I feel sure if I was positive they would of called me, though. I'm thinking of buying that home HIV kit soon. I really don't think I have it, but I would really like the peace of mind knowing for sure. Any thoughts would be appreciated. Thanks.

 

If you don't know any more about AIDS than what you have mentioned in you email, you are just wrong.  I believe every expert in this country that the only way you could have contracted AIDS by kissing someone on the cheek is if you had bloody lips an he had a bloody face.

 

Wise up............................

 

Ron

 


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