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January 27, 2007, 1:02 pm PST
i'm friends with a guy and he is of interracial background
Quote From: kelz4532I am in a interracial relationship and i don't see anything wrong with it. My man is black and i am white. He is the best thing that has ever happen to me. He has the best manners ever and he treats me like a women should be treated. I love him with all my heart and i can't see my life with out him. My family hates it. But when you love someone i believe that you should follow your heart. SO WITH DATING OUT OF YOUR RACE JUST FOLLOW YOUR HEART. THE OUTSIDE IS JUST A COLOR!!!!!! well i met a guy a year ago on valentines. yahoo messenger persoanls we met and talked on the phone. we talked about where we were in ower lifes. we both lead busy lifes he has 3 kids. but we did not see each other until oct. i live in traverse city mi. so i was staying on mac island with a friend and i love petoskey so i called him. we met and he said come to my house. so me and my freind did so. i met his daughter. all the time i have known we have so much in common and i don't see him being black and white just what is inside. he is someone i have been waiting for all my life. so him being busy working his family business landscaping and him haveing anouther business and his 3 kids. i made a effort to tell him i was going to bring up dinner for him and his daughter i was going to take no for an answer. he said go my daughter is there make yourself at home. i so much inpressed them just being who i am. we both have faith in ower god. his daughter changed her cloths 3 times before her dad got home. so him and i watched a dvd of the 10th ozzfest. he worked with ozzy osbourn and many other bands for about 10 years. he was adopted and has another brother of the same race. so we went to bed i know how that sounds. he knew how i felt. i told him i was not going to make the same mistakes. so we just talked and were close. i told him about his daughter and what she did. i said i think she likes me. he said i don't know anyone who would not like you for who you are. your honest you say whats on your mind. then he asked why are you single and i asked him the same. i told him i have not found the one. but new i was very attracted to him and he was to me.i told him i like my busy life but want to settle down. but had not been looking much. no time.but i told him the diffrance between us i liked to stay home at night. he told me this was the first time he had been with a woman in a very long time.i said this is the first for me. it felt so good to be in someones arms all night. because i'm used to being alone with 3 cats.i beleave in god and i know he has been behind this all the way.i have prayed for him and his kids.so i left his house and came back to tc mi went to church. i was praying and god brought me to tell him. look at your life get back to me god.so i called left that for him. so i went on with my life. talked to him 2 times from oct threw dec. i was up there on a womans retreat. i stopped at his house. i new there was something going on. with me praying all along there was something breewing in his life. so i talked to him he said all his life involved was his kids and that he was going to get full custody 2 out of the 3 with 2 diffrent woman. well to make a long storry short. his ex girlfriend of the son and daughter he left years ago. was married and into drugs again and got the son that is 15 into selling some how. so he is going threw all this. me praying for him. i made a basket for him and his family in what they would like because no woman has been around in a long time. he is haveing a hard time trusting. but he has let me in because he let me taking his kids shopping and to lunch.i spent the time they needed. i know i would never be there mother. so i took there stuff up. i was going to come home. i prayed while i was driveing. god told me go back they need you to saport them. you are a role model in there lifes. the father said thank you. so tell me what you think .do i have something going here. he could be the love of my life and he knows i'm there for him. he says thanks for who you are. i want to be apart of that after we all spent time together doing ower own thing in the house. thanks smiles suzy q
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