I'm with you. I wouldn't want someone standing over my back telling what to do and how to do it, so I don't do that to my husband..........and the kids are still fine! LOL Dads need alone time with their children and I don't interfere with that, I use that time to do something I enjoy or finish up some of the housework. It's a break for me as well and even though he doesn't do things the exact way I would, he is still a great dad that loves spending time with his children.
Take care.
Elffie