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He sounds controlling and you sound controlled.  Was your ex abusive?      

Have you contacted anyone from the child support agency?      

I am in no real position to say relax because I am a single mother myself.  However, I've been dealing with a controlling husband.  Most of the time he is full of hot air.  Though the times he isn't...he is full force.  Which ends up back firing on him -not me.  What happens to me:  I freak out, worry, and plead.  Looking back, I'd be more relaxed.  Everything comes out in the wash.      

I would take a deep breathe and review the situation.  Is he doing this because he really wants to see them?  Is he just trying to make you jump?  Either way, you have parental rights also.  The only thing you can do is find out facts from the authorities and document everything.      

I hope this helps.      

Mary    

P.S.(I know it is not as easy as it seems.  Your situation is unique to anyone else.  People not in it ---need to understand that!!  Sorry, just had to say that.  Lots of people looking outside end up having swift opinions and I don't want to be that person.)    

GOOD LUCK!