Hi,
I have just read your message,and I would advice you to be very careful about your daughter's boyfriend.Unfortunately I am talking from personal experience,my ex husband had the same behavior and his violence escalated so much that when I was pregnant he was kicking me in my stomach.
I decided to leave him ,my son is now 10 yrs old,he is a very nice,well behaved,bright young boy,he does well in school and I am glad I have not let his violent father in his life,because I know for sure he would have ruined my son emotionally and physically.
I was finally granted divorce and fully custody of my son from the court.
If a man is nasty and violent towards the mother of his child and he doesn't have any respect for her,how can you honestly say that he is a good father?
His child will start to grow and soon or later witness his bad behavior towards his/her mum...how do you think the child will feel?
This boyfriend is not good enough,how can he keep a baby out at night until 1.00 am.What sort of dad is that?
Get him out of your daughter's life as soon as you can........before it's too late.I moved country in order for my son not to being in contact with his "sperm donor".that's how I refer to him.He is not good enough to be called "dad".
Good luck to your daughter and her baby.