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December 8, 2006, 11:52 pm PST

Interracial Relationships

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I have a beautiful young daughter who is 18 and has made some bad mistakes. She has gotten herself involved in a young hispanic male who she got pregant by. She now has a cute little 3month old baby girl. Her boyfriend has a anger  problem and is very jealous over her. He torments her, all they do is fight to the point we have had to call police to make him stop. I hate to see her cry day after day with his guy. The last straw was one night he took the baby from her and said he was going to leave but he just went outside with the baby at 1am and walked around trying to make my daughter upset.. No DOUBT IT WORKED. Finally when we talked him to come in and he needed to leave he took a nail file and started cutting his arm. Needless to say the police was called again and they  finally took him away. She is young, I think little scared of his crazyiest behavior. He needs anger control and He is so jealous of her he constantley thinks she is messing around on him. She works 20hr a week and keeps a baby.. she doesn't have time for a social life. She can't afford an atterney to file custody papers. I suggested try to see if legal Aid would help her. Any suggestions on how to make this work for her. I know he will have to be involved in the babys life for years to come. He is a good father when hes not angry. But he has issues and problems he can't deal with. Hiis family is from Mexico and seem  nice althou they don't speak alot of english.
Sorry to sound harsh but whats your point? The fact that he is hispanic has nothing to do with him being an idiot, that's his character. Are you stereotyping? Can you honestly say that there are no men like that from other ethnic backgrounds?
 
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June 26, 2007, 9:13 am PDT

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Quote From: dfwtxlady

I have a beautiful young daughter who is 18 and has made some bad mistakes. She has gotten herself involved in a young hispanic male who she got pregant by. She now has a cute little 3month old baby girl. Her boyfriend has a anger  problem and is very jealous over her. He torments her, all they do is fight to the point we have had to call police to make him stop. I hate to see her cry day after day with his guy. The last straw was one night he took the baby from her and said he was going to leave but he just went outside with the baby at 1am and walked around trying to make my daughter upset.. No DOUBT IT WORKED. Finally when we talked him to come in and he needed to leave he took a nail file and started cutting his arm. Needless to say the police was called again and they  finally took him away. She is young, I think little scared of his crazyiest behavior. He needs anger control and He is so jealous of her he constantley thinks she is messing around on him. She works 20hr a week and keeps a baby.. she doesn't have time for a social life. She can't afford an atterney to file custody papers. I suggested try to see if legal Aid would help her. Any suggestions on how to make this work for her. I know he will have to be involved in the babys life for years to come. He is a good father when hes not angry. But he has issues and problems he can't deal with. Hiis family is from Mexico and seem  nice althou they don't speak alot of english.

Hi,

I have just read your message,and I would advice you to be very careful about your daughter's boyfriend.Unfortunately I am talking from personal experience,my ex husband had the same behavior and his violence escalated so much that when I was pregnant he was kicking me in my stomach.

I decided to leave him ,my son is now 10 yrs old,he is a very nice,well behaved,bright young boy,he does well in school and I am glad I have not let his violent father in his life,because I know for sure he would have ruined my son emotionally and physically.

I was finally granted divorce and fully custody of my son from the court.

If a man is nasty and violent towards the mother of his child and he doesn't have any respect for her,how can you honestly say that he is a good father?

His child will start to grow and soon or later witness his bad behavior towards his/her mum...how do you think the child will feel?

This boyfriend is not good enough,how can he keep a baby out at night until 1.00 am.What sort of dad is that?

Get him out of your daughter's life as soon as you can........before it's too late.I moved country in order for my son not to being in contact with his "sperm donor".that's how I refer to him.He is not good enough to be called "dad".

Good luck to your daughter and her baby.

 


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