Replies to '07/06 “Call it Off!”'

Quote From: kar_lotta

 My youngest son married a girl 10 years older than he at 19.  It was one of the worst mistakes he made and I wish I'd made more objection.  She was divorced with three kids.  She cheated on him constantly, screamed constantly and unfaithful always.  Her own sisters and ex-husband warned him, but he wouldn't listen to anyone.  She finally bankrupted him and thankfully, he got a divorce.  I don't advocate divorce, but there are times it's necessary.  Even after they separated, she was running up bills and having them sent to my son.  He had to get his lawyer to get that stopped.  He was in the Army and when he was in the field, she "entertained" the troops.  Never paid any bills, no idea what she did with the pay checks.  All I can say, is, PLEASE, STOP AND THINK THIS THROUGH.  I agree with your family, she's wanting a meal ticket and she'll continue with her wild ways.  I hope you do a lot of praying before doing anything.  Good luck, if you go through with this sham of a marriage, you'll need more than luck.

Quote From: kar_lotta

 My youngest son married a girl 10 years older than he at 19.  It was one of the worst mistakes he made and I wish I'd made more objection.  She was divorced with three kids.  She cheated on him constantly, screamed constantly and unfaithful always.  Her own sisters and ex-husband warned him, but he wouldn't listen to anyone.  She finally bankrupted him and thankfully, he got a divorce.  I don't advocate divorce, but there are times it's necessary.  Even after they separated, she was running up bills and having them sent to my son.  He had to get his lawyer to get that stopped.  He was in the Army and when he was in the field, she "entertained" the troops.  Never paid any bills, no idea what she did with the pay checks.  All I can say, is, PLEASE, STOP AND THINK THIS THROUGH.  I agree with your family, she's wanting a meal ticket and she'll continue with her wild ways.  I hope you do a lot of praying before doing anything.  Good luck, if you go through with this sham of a marriage, you'll need more than luck.

Quote From: kar_lotta

 My youngest son married a girl 10 years older than he at 19.  It was one of the worst mistakes he made and I wish I'd made more objection.  She was divorced with three kids.  She cheated on him constantly, screamed constantly and unfaithful always.  Her own sisters and ex-husband warned him, but he wouldn't listen to anyone.  She finally bankrupted him and thankfully, he got a divorce.  I don't advocate divorce, but there are times it's necessary.  Even after they separated, she was running up bills and having them sent to my son.  He had to get his lawyer to get that stopped.  He was in the Army and when he was in the field, she "entertained" the troops.  Never paid any bills, no idea what she did with the pay checks.  All I can say, is, PLEASE, STOP AND THINK THIS THROUGH.  I agree with your family, she's wanting a meal ticket and she'll continue with her wild ways.  I hope you do a lot of praying before doing anything.  Good luck, if you go through with this sham of a marriage, you'll need more than luck.