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September 8, 2007, 4:00 pm PDT

the nanny affair

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Why would she let him back into her life after filing a restraining order against him? That doesn't make sense to me. Especially after she said she was fearing for her life.

 

I said it before in the part 1 forum, and I'll say it again here...

 

Call it quits!! Nobody needs that kinda stress in their life. If he's the kinda guy who'll cheat on his wife with a teenaged nanny, he's not worth your time or effort.

 

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September 8, 2007, 6:39 pm PDT

Human nature is fickle.

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Why would she let him back into her life after filing a restraining order against him? That doesn't make sense to me. Especially after she said she was fearing for her life.

 

I said it before in the part 1 forum, and I'll say it again here...

 

Call it quits!! Nobody needs that kinda stress in their life. If he's the kinda guy who'll cheat on his wife with a teenaged nanny, he's not worth your time or effort.

 

Nightangel1282

Sometimes even after being afraid and filing restraining orders, it seems that women will gravitate back to the familiar. I always wonder why,mainly because I've never been in this kind of situation and can't imagine going back to someone that I had been afraid of enough to file a restraining order. Human beings are strange animals sometimes.
 
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September 12, 2007, 11:56 pm PDT

I think she is lying

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Why would she let him back into her life after filing a restraining order against him? That doesn't make sense to me. Especially after she said she was fearing for her life.

 

I said it before in the part 1 forum, and I'll say it again here...

 

Call it quits!! Nobody needs that kinda stress in their life. If he's the kinda guy who'll cheat on his wife with a teenaged nanny, he's not worth your time or effort.

 

Nightangel1282

I think that the wife may be exaggerating the situation just a bit...I mean really, if you truly feared for your life and you believed that your husband was forcing sex & narcotics on a teenage girl why on earth would you ever consider reconciliation??? I also think that the friend is a big instigator. I am not saying that the husband is Innocent but i do sense as though he is being ganged up on...I really believe we may have a case of bitter grapes...I mean the babysitter or sitters have been rejected  as well as the friend...maybe they are just mad that they can't have him and that they realize he loves his wife and that they were just being used.
 
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September 13, 2007, 5:44 am PDT

09/13 The Nanny Affair, Part 2

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Why would she let him back into her life after filing a restraining order against him? That doesn't make sense to me. Especially after she said she was fearing for her life.

 

I said it before in the part 1 forum, and I'll say it again here...

 

Call it quits!! Nobody needs that kinda stress in their life. If he's the kinda guy who'll cheat on his wife with a teenaged nanny, he's not worth your time or effort.

 

Nightangel1282

why would she go back on everything she worked for after filing a restraining order? her friend is right.. she screwed herself.. say he hasn't changed and he starts to get physical with her again, and she decides to file another restraining order.. any judge in his right mind is going to find out about the first one and say "well if you are so scared of him, then why did you let him come back around after filing the first one?"... and his attitude says it all.. when he said "I admitted to it. Let's move on!"... that right there is all she needs to know. He doesn't get the gravity of the pain and hurt that he's caused her or their family. He's too caught up in worrying about embarassing himself and not worried about her. He doesn't care. She needs to call it quits and move on. I mean, come on, if the man had enough guts to come on to her best friend.. drunk or not, there's no excuse for that or the affair(S). I wouldn't want to teach my kids that it's okay to have a man treat a woman like that. I would get out for the sake of my kids. And, he is obviously still lying to her about being in therapy, so what else is he still lying about?
 
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September 13, 2007, 1:13 pm PDT

Good Advice

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Why would she let him back into her life after filing a restraining order against him? That doesn't make sense to me. Especially after she said she was fearing for her life.

 

I said it before in the part 1 forum, and I'll say it again here...

 

Call it quits!! Nobody needs that kinda stress in their life. If he's the kinda guy who'll cheat on his wife with a teenaged nanny, he's not worth your time or effort.

 

Nightangel1282

U need to watch"Forest Gump"! And "Run with It"  Run Forest Run!  Run Forest Run" Wake Up Girl!!!@
 
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September 13, 2007, 6:14 pm PDT

NANNY/HUSBAND AFFAIR

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Why would she let him back into her life after filing a restraining order against him? That doesn't make sense to me. Especially after she said she was fearing for her life.

 

I said it before in the part 1 forum, and I'll say it again here...

 

Call it quits!! Nobody needs that kinda stress in their life. If he's the kinda guy who'll cheat on his wife with a teenaged nanny, he's not worth your time or effort.

 

Nightangel1282


                     YOU ARE OH SO RIGHT BUT, SHE IS GOING TO WAIT FOR HIM AS LONF AS IT TAKES!
 
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December 27, 2007, 2:47 pm PST

12/27 The Nanny Affair, Part 2

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Why would she let him back into her life after filing a restraining order against him? That doesn't make sense to me. Especially after she said she was fearing for her life.

 

I said it before in the part 1 forum, and I'll say it again here...

 

Call it quits!! Nobody needs that kinda stress in their life. If he's the kinda guy who'll cheat on his wife with a teenaged nanny, he's not worth your time or effort.

 

Nightangel1282

  I don't think these two should get back together.  However I must say that that I think

that nosey friend should go too.  In fact I believe she is part of the problem.  Why was she

living with this family.  She is a troublemaker!  It is none of her business.  I have the feeling

that the redhead friend is jealous of the husband.  She doesn't want him in the picture and

she wants to take his place as the "father figure"

 

Nancy in Florida
 
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December 27, 2007, 6:06 pm PST

RE: call it quits????

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Why would she let him back into her life after filing a restraining order against him? That doesn't make sense to me. Especially after she said she was fearing for her life.

 

I said it before in the part 1 forum, and I'll say it again here...

 

Call it quits!! Nobody needs that kinda stress in their life. If he's the kinda guy who'll cheat on his wife with a teenaged nanny, he's not worth your time or effort.

 

Nightangel1282

I am sorry. Those of you without indescretions or without mistakes... PLEASE cast the first stone..Kind of like her best friend that doesn't have a man or seem to be able to keep one.  At any rate, that is none of my business because the show was about "Brandon". It seems that Brandon has made several mistakes.  But for everyone to critisize her for wanting to keep her marriage together is ludicrous.  I hope that they can work it out and not only that, become a ministry for everyone that wants to throw in the towel.  He does at least admit he has a problem and any man that is willing to go on Dr. Phil and expose his dirty laundry to the world must really want his marriage to work.. He said it several time.. "this is why I am here".. Did anyone hear him????  I am a woman and not only that an independent woman. I agree with Dr. Phil, YES get therapy but also get some spiritual counseling.. I am glad to see someone that is going to stand up for what she believes in and that is a HAPPY marriage and what God intends that a marriage should  be.  I know this has sucked for them so far and I know that it must be hard.. People seem to be saying.. HEY LADY GET A BACK BONE..But it is backbone to stand before your family, your friends, and a bunch of strangers on a television show to say, I am going to stand by my man no matter what and how long it takes... God bless her and God bless him and I really hope that God can work a miracle in their life and make this marriage work.. 

Another note... keep your friends out of your business and don't let them live with you!

 

Sincerely,

 

Monica

 
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