Replies to '12/27 The Nanny Affair, Part 2'

I agree. They probably should  be divorced. For her safety and mental stability. I don't think Brandon will change either.

 BUT! What's this "The marriage has lasted the standard time duration for a first time marriage?"

 OMG! A standard time duration? Nobody told me there was a standard time duration. Apparently I've overshot the standard time duration in my first, and only, marriage. I've been married for 36 years and I'm only 52. But...I didn't go into it with a time limit either.

So....what's the standard time duration for a second marriage...third...fourth? I'm just curious.

       I feel that this situtation with Brandon, won't change unless he change for himsself no one else, and its alot of work, but if this is what he really wants, then he can do it with surport, and cousler and be honest, and get very very real, and accept this wrongs he did, then the change will start,   writte it down that helps a;so. then burn it and say I want to change, then start working on it. But like I said , Only if Brandon wants to achange, not just get his marrage back,and the kids, but for him...     Peggy

Amy is obviously holding onto an illusion of what she hopes he can become.  So while he is manipulating her, she is in denial- or just putting up w/it to have him around.  The fact that no one even reacted with shock when he called her supposed "best friend" a whore/slut...(I'm sure there's more- but that did it for me!!) speaks volumes.

She is wasting her life on him.  The best option since she had kids w/him is to protect them and move on.  But- sadly, she will waste plenty of years on him, and set a horrible example for her kids.

Too bad.

You this is easy. .. "Oh Divorce"  He cheated.. just leave...

Have you ever been in that situation... it is not that easy just walk out when the man of your dreams is cheating on you. When you adore him, you hope and pray he will change and when he says he will, you belive with all of your heart\, mind and soul that he wil.. ...

there is no easy fix .... when the heart is involved...