Oh boy...I'm writing this as my husband just left to go to work and I'm honestly scared....Not necessarily physically so although I don't know. My husband is a pathological liar. He makes me doubt what I know I hear and see and feel. A couple of weeks ago I left because he was getting in my face, calling me repeatedly by my mother's name (which is a bit of contention). Then he called my oldest daughter her name (which my daughter knows how much he hates my mother)...(She is 15). I told him I was leaving and he kept saying how he knew things about me that would definitely give him custody of the kids which I KNOW HE CAN'T BECAUSE I HAVEN'T DONE ANYTHING WRONG!!!! He said he has had people follow me to a class I HAD to attend for a week and that the neighbors have seen how I treat the kids WHICH I KNOW IS NOT TRUE....but then again I start to think...."What did I do?" I hate that! I doubt something that isn't there. Anyhow, I said I was taking the kids with me and he said, "If you leave with the kids your life will end right here". He has never been physical to me except for a hole in the wall and a desk that he scratched up with a BBQ tool when he was angry once, but I got scared. He called me names and I told the kids to get in the van (in the garage). When I went to get my keys, he ran outside and popped the hood of my van. I ran outside and sat on the hood, informing him that it was against the law to prevent me from leaving. He told me to move...I did...he popped the hood...and acted like he was pulling out a part and said, "Good luck finding that part...." and went back inside. I picked up the phone and dialed 9-1-1 because now he was disabling my car????? As soon as I hung up, he said he didn't really pull anything and that I was free to go. As I was leaving, he asked the kids to give him a hug. My 10-year-old did and he repeatedly told her, "Just remember...I'm not the bad guy..."
Unfortunately...I went back. The only place I had to go was my mom's and she was enjoying just having someone at the house but I was not in the mood to visit and be happy. My kids started missing their "stuff" and projects were at the house that needed completion, so I went back. I told him it was just for the kids, but of course he's playing the part of "good dad" "good husband". It makes me sick. He denies, to this day, that he said my life would end or ANY of that. He said everyone just heard my side. He has since lied however. At Christmas him and my brother in law were talking (I found out later) and my brother in law called me a day later to say that my hubby asked him what he knew about the situation (when I left him). He said he didn't really know anything and my hubby proceeded to tell him that he had so much S*** on me and he would get custody of the kids. When I confronted my hubby about this, he said that my bro in law is full of it and all he said to him was what he had told the officer the night I left him...nothing about having anything on me. My bro in law wouldn't have any reason to lie to me...we barely talk. So....again he lies.
I don't know what to do. He won't leave the house. He lies...It's disgusting. ?????????
