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September 16, 2007, 9:57 am PDT

9/17 FAKING IT/?

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That woman is faking.  My husband - for real has kidney failure from high dose chemo.  My husband - for real has been battling for his life with cancer these past 3 years.  The kidney failure happened when he thought he could lick the cancer once and for all with high dosage chemo in May of this year.  Instead it destroyed his kidneys landing him in ICU twice.  Why would you want to fake health problems when at any time you could get hit with the real thing?  Enjoy life - live in the moment.  We don't live in any "limelight" with his illness although he has wonderful friends and family that care a whole lot.  We may go for days without someone calling but we know they care but are busy with their own lives too.  If God blesses you with good health use it for helping others and caring about others not just yourself.

I feel your right about her faking it and Dr Phil will expose her.Keep your Faith in God and Pray for aMiracle. I have seen people that refused any treatment and God healed them.I'm not saying don't see a Doctor keep your Faith strong.God Bless you.My Prayers have just gone out for you and your husband and family.You need their support.

 
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September 23, 2007, 5:36 pm PDT

I understand

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That woman is faking.  My husband - for real has kidney failure from high dose chemo.  My husband - for real has been battling for his life with cancer these past 3 years.  The kidney failure happened when he thought he could lick the cancer once and for all with high dosage chemo in May of this year.  Instead it destroyed his kidneys landing him in ICU twice.  Why would you want to fake health problems when at any time you could get hit with the real thing?  Enjoy life - live in the moment.  We don't live in any "limelight" with his illness although he has wonderful friends and family that care a whole lot.  We may go for days without someone calling but we know they care but are busy with their own lives too.  If God blesses you with good health use it for helping others and caring about others not just yourself.

your position, I think, that we shouldn't take our health for granted because illness can strike and devastate us at any time.  Life is meant for loving others.

 

I am sorry for what you and your husband have to go through.

 

What I think everyone is not getting about this woman faking kidney failure is that she IS sick.  I think she is seriously mentally ill and for what she has, there isn't much hope.

 

Please, when you thank God for your physical health, don't forget your mental health.  Having suffered with mental illness for more than half my life, I know what agony is.  i wouldn't wish it upon anyone.  As for physical illness, I haven't had much.  So I am grateful for that.

 

Anyone could have a nervous breakdown, bi-polar disorder, or a bout of severe depression; young women (and sometimes men) come down with anorexia nervosa; millions of women suffer with post partum depression of varying severity; most know a friend or family member tormented by schizophrenia.  The late Princess Diana had a personality disorder, bulimia and episodes of depression and self-harm.   I suspect the lady on the show has Munchausen's, which is very rare but has a poor recovery rate.  Many people can and do die as a result of their mental illnesses.

 

Please don't reserve sympathy just for the physically ill - the mentally ill suffer torment all day, every day, for years.  Please remember them in your prayers.

 

By some miracle I have reached some level of recovery.  Many of my friends haven't recovered; many have died, due to suicide or accidents., and most of them were in their 20's and 30's.   Just as no one is in control of their early childhood experiences of trauma, such as sexual abuse, so no one is in control of whether they become mentally ill.  To make matters worse, you have to cope with the social stigma of being mentally ill, and endure former close friends and family members alienating you because they just don't understand.

 

I hope this woman gets all the help she needs and that she can find some happiness.  I hope she reads this, and knows that some people do care, and some even understand.

 


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