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September 22, 2007, 4:17 pm PDT

SO TRUE!

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Jerry is a loser, but to alot of things.  He lost out on family, marriage, his children.  He also lost out on his self.  He's given his whole life to alcohol and drugs and has made that his focus.  When he gave into that, he stopped living a life that mattered.  He's not the same person and even though Kayla met him for the first time really, the man she seen was not the man he ever use to be.  That person is gone and will never be known again.  I'm angry with Jerry for how he's done his chiildren and not parenting them.  He can't change what has happened, but he agreed to meet with Kayla about his leaving and it was a smack in the face for him to do that with telling all but the truth. He confused that with lies and she sure didn't deserve that as part of her understanding of the truth. It is ugly enough as it is,but he at least owed her that. I can't help but wonder if he intentually lied or is so messed up in his head that he also believed the things he said.  It was pointless to argue facts with him since I don't think he knows the facts really.  I hope though that Kayla was able to release alot of the anger and all that she has towards him.  She deserves to heal in spite of him helping with that or not.  He told her life was too short to live unhappy and even though that's agreeable, I can't help but wonder how life has to be even shorter to live so empty. 
You're so right about Jerry and I'm sorry for the way he has hurt you and Kayla and Micah. He'll have to answer for that one day, even if he doesn't have the SENSE to feel the guilt now!
 


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