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October 27, 2007, 12:56 pm PDT

Can you define "greater responsibility?"

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     Since the beginning of time women have had an advantage over men when it comes to parenting.A woman always KNOWS a child belongs to her.A  man can only know what he's told.Therefore the greater responsibility belongs to a mother.
Are you saying it is more the woman's responsibility to provide and take care of the child?
 
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October 29, 2007, 11:00 am PDT

We women RULE...sometimes sadly.

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     Since the beginning of time women have had an advantage over men when it comes to parenting.A woman always KNOWS a child belongs to her.A  man can only know what he's told.Therefore the greater responsibility belongs to a mother.

You are SOOOO correct. And she can choose to kill her growing child in her body while the baby's father has NO SAY in things.

 

THAT IS WHY men should wait until the benefit of marriage (and be truly in love with the woman) before jumping into bed. There are too many sad realities out there for us human beings! Sadly, often the children pay the ultimate price...death, life w/o a quality father, poverty, etc.

 
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October 29, 2007, 2:30 pm PDT

10/29 Parent Trap

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     Since the beginning of time women have had an advantage over men when it comes to parenting.A woman always KNOWS a child belongs to her.A  man can only know what he's told.Therefore the greater responsibility belongs to a mother.

The guy being told they are the father should be smart enough to ask for a test if they are unsure the child is theirs, its just somthing that should be done they shouldnt just wait for ever to have them take a test then take it out on the child, yes the mother should get in trouble if they do that but the father or guy being told hes the father should ask for a test to be done if they dont want to pay child suport.

 
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October 30, 2007, 6:23 pm PDT

TRAPPING MEN WITH CHILDREN

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     Since the beginning of time women have had an advantage over men when it comes to parenting.A woman always KNOWS a child belongs to her.A  man can only know what he's told.Therefore the greater responsibility belongs to a mother.

Readers and Dr. Phil - Smack that mother for me for smiling like she didn't do anything. I just hope the man that was LIED to try to have a relationship with the daughter.  I really feel that the mother is telling her things about the man - she is keeping this mess going. Drop the money and let the man do what he wants for the girl without her lying interference. The new step-dad better watch out - she is a CHEATER - and in the worst kind of way.

 

THE WOMAN THAT WAS ON YOUR SHOW SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF HERSELF. SHE CREATED THIS MESS AND SHE WAS SHAKING HER HEAD LIKE SHE DID NOTHING WRONG.  LIKE THE OLD FOLKS ALWAYS SAY MOMMAS BABY - DADDY'S MAYBE.  A lot of light skinned women or white women have done this for a long time because the other party is also light skinned.  In the black community there are so many shades of color it is kind of hard to put the child off on the father (It happens though - so don't email me about what I expressed in this email). 

 

It still boils down that the mother lied and the so called father at the time still should have showed the girl love because he raised her and you can not turn off true love.  The child is truly hurt in this situation. 

 

My skin and my blood was boiling every time I saw the mother shaking her head like she didn't do anything wrong. She knew she committed adultery and she had the nerve to be smiling about the situation. I just wanted to smack some since into her - she just want the money. Again, The new step-dad better watch out - she is a CHEATER - and in the worst kind of way. How many other men did she sleep with and didn't tell her husband?

 


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