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Some women don't deserve children. I also know a man in these shoes. His daughter was 15 when the truth came out. And it was all about the money with the mother. When she finally told the truth was when she could collect the real father's SSI. The real father never got to know his only child. He died of cancer. The mother never told the real father because he would have taken the girl away from her. The father had money and could have done that. This girl went through the first 6 years of her life thinking one man was her father then she was told another was her father, then when the DNA was done it was a third guy. The second guy got custody of her and raised her for 9  yrs. Needless to say this child (young lady) is very confused and angry.  First of all she never got to know her father, then the man who raised her has anger toward the mother so he takes it out on her. She does not want to have anything to do with her mother. This woman has 5 kids and come to find out 3 different dads. Yet no one knew any of this until recently. The oldest is 25. The other 2 kids still don't know who their dad is. Two do know, cause of DNA and he raised them from birth. I think this kind of woman should be punished. The mental damage she does to a child with this is wordless.

I agree with you %100!!! That is a horrible thing to do. How could someone do that to there child? This man had no choice in this, had he known this was not his child he could have chosen whether or not to be in her life a long time ago, before it would have affected her. This woman cheated, lied, hurt a lot of people and i feel that she hardly gets any of the blame. I feel like everyone was picking on the dad. He should not have to pay child support. They kept talking how its all about the money with him, that is rediculous. He shouldnt have to pay for a child who is not his. She should have to pay him back! I wish that the father and child could have there relationship back but he shouldnt have to be financially responsible. The only one worried about money is the mom obviously! She is horrible. the clip with her laughing ticked me off really bad. What a witch. Those kids seem sweet, poor girls. 

I say shame on all three of you for the way you have handled this.  First, the wife (mother) of this young

girl.  You lied and deceived your husband.  You were totally wrong to have an affair outside your marriage.  I feel that no matter who or what the circumstances, you should end one relationship before you start another.  Tie up any loose ends before moving on.  But then you lied to your husband when you brought this new little one into the world.  He loved that child like his own.  When the marriage did eventually end, and he found out she wasn't his, he was hurt and rightfully so.   Then it became anger, and when his new wife got involved it just magnified everything.  When someone is hurt so deeply it becomes very difficult to see and think things through clearly and rationally.  His new wife should have thought about that child and the fact that she had been "his" for 10 years and encouraged him to keep the relationship with her whether he paid child support or not.   She knew he had these children and would be paying child support when she married him.   He could have then petitioned the court about whether he paid child support for her or not.  I think if it were not court order for him to pay and he kept the relationship with the child he would most likely be much more willing to and probably want to shower her with the things she needs and wanted.  What's wrong with her mother getting a job to support her "love child".  She seems to feel she is entitled to child support because he loved the child for 10 years.  Does he owe her (the mom) child support for this child more than she owed him the truth about the paternity of said child?    Perhaps if it discouraged this type of situation, maybe a man should be able to sue the woman for her deceit and emotional cruelty.  It works both ways folks! 

Amen and Amen, and I am a wife and a mom of 2 boys.  Would that deceit of this magnitude were punishable by law, things might change!  If I were on the jury, I'd sock it to this supposed "mom."

 

I can't believe that an educated attorney could sit up and justify what I saw on the show today. She looked like a fool! This has nothing to do with money, and everything to do with time.  If that man was not the father than HE has a choice to keep contact with the kid. Stop trying to dig in the mans pocket!  Women are not held responsible for what they do.

 

Once the seed is fertilized then the man has no say.  If it's a woman right to choose, then it's a womens responsibility!  The women have been getting it both ways. I paid child support for 14 years and my babies mother admited that she put me on because she could.  Not because I refused to be apart of her life, because she wanted to suffer.  I will tell you this, the child still suffers because of child support.  If the father can't live, and pay his bills?? Who do you think suffers? If he has to go and get another job, who has to suffer? The kids!!!!

 

Its easy to say "it aint about the money" when your getting it!  That lady should go to jail, and we need Child Support reform. The states are makin a ton of money off of fathers who owe back pay. None of that money is going to the child!        

darn right!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

darn right!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!