Replies to '12/25 Parent Trap'

That is a bunch of garbage.  She duped him for ten years then goes on national television to show how cunning she is???  He should be able to sue her to get his money back.  I will agree that the man should have handled the situation differently.  He should continue to count her as his child but not

have to be required to pay child support, especially since they were not still a united family at that

time.  "The Gloria" showed her butt by trying to railroad the conversation and tried many times to

stiffle the man who had been victimized in the very same way.  If, as she said, the money is not important, LET HER PAY THE CHILD SUPPORT.  I feel all she really wanted to do in the first place is to be on television...to keep herself in the spotlight..... and to hawk, or have Dr. Phil, hawk her book.

Fraud is fraud. If you rob a bank because you want to donate the $$$ to Greenpeace,
you still are a criminal felon. So, any excuses for women to commit FRAUD upon men
are misandrous sexism, plain and simple.
Its telling that you would not call women out on women's evil. That proves that you are
a man hating sexist bigot, who is fine with Evil, as long as its Evil done by a woman.
And, you have AbZero standing to speak on what a man " should " do. If you believe
what you said, prove it: YOU pay the Child Support for this child.
" Put up or shut up. "
Women who commit paternity fraud, should be criminally charged, should be made to
repay 100% of the support money, with interest, and should have the children removed
from their custody, as their act of fraud proves that they are unfit to parent.
Imagine if many, many women had found out, years later, that their babies were
" accidentally " switched at the hospital. There would be outcries, and there is no way
that such defrauded women would be made to pay for children that ARE NOT THEIRS.
Men deserve the same Justice. Thats... *equality*.

That DNA would not matter if you were on death row. I wonder if that statement you said know that DNA means nothing has changed in your mind know,

You obviously have no personal experience in these matters; if you had, then your opinion would not be so one-sided.  How dare you make the defense that Maria probably had  'a good reason.'   Open your eyes.

I'm sorry but I think that is a really lame excuse to trap a man into staying with you. All it does is ruin the mans life and the child life even more. It is all the womans fault! If she would just tell the truth in the first place or better yet keep her pants on, then none of this would happen anyway. The man should be able to see the child without paying child support. The man can't just walk away from the child after so many years. If he can do that then he is no better than she is. The mother is the one that has done this to her own child not only the man. I know so many people say it takes a real man to stay for the child but it also takes a real woman to stand up and tell the truth in the beginning for her child. I have 3 children and could never imagine putting one of them through that. The woman should be the one to pay. The man shouldn't be punished for actually standing up and paying for a child he thought was truly his. He has already payed for years. The woman knows who the real father is go get the rest of the money from the real father.

I am no one to judge another person's actions, but I think everyone should be accountable for their own actions. Whatever her reasons for why she didn't say anything for ten  years it's simply not good enough.

She was woman enough to go out and have an affair, she wasn't scared then.

Yeah, she  knew he would leave her, and that's why she didn't say anything. Does that make it okay?

There is no excuse for doing wrong, I'm sorry.

So why justify it. It was wrong, period.

A murderer believes to have a good reason to go out and kill someone, yeah others do it, does that make it okay?

There are consequences and people should be held liable.

She needs to pay for her crime.

There is no saying what the man in this situation should do.

Leaving the emotional part out, if you ain't the biological father you shouldn't have to pay.

 

 

I WAS SOOOO MAD YESTERDAY WHEN I WATCHED THE PARENT TRAP I WANTED TO JUST HURT MARIE. IT IS SO TRUE WHAT ENRIQUE DID WAS WRONG & HE ADMITED HE KNOWS NOW HE LET HIS ANGER & HURT TAKE OVER & JUST WANTED TO HURT SOMEBODY IT WAS TO BAD IT HAD TO BE THE DAUGHTER, BUT THAT MARIE WAS SO DAM SMUG EVERY TIME  SHE WAS ON CAMERA SHE WAS JUST SMILING . EVEN WHEN DR. PHIL SAID U STARTED ALL THIS SHE JUST SMILED AND SAID I KNOW IT LIKE SHE WAS JUST SO PROUD OF WHAT SHE HAD DONE . IT IS WOMEN LIKE HER THAT GIVE WOMEN A BAD NAME & MOST MEN FEEL LIKE  WOMEN ARE OUT TO TAKE THEM FOR EVERY THING THEY HAVE. DR. PHIL I KNOW U DIDN'T SAY ALL U WANTED TO U COULDN'T HAVE . THERE WAS A LOT I COULD HAVE SAID & WANTED TO SAY MY HEART GOES OUT TO THE DAUGHTER BUT I'M NOT SURE IF IT'S BECAUSE OF THE WAY ENRIQUE HAS DONE HER OR BECAUSE SHE HAS A MOTHER LIKE MARIE. I HAVE NEVER GOT ON A MESSAGE BOARD BEFORE BUT I WAS JUST TO MAD I HAD TO SPEECK MY MIND ! !!   MS. ALRED MADE NO SENCE TO ME SAYING U HAVE A LIMITED TIME TO SAY I WANT A DNA TEST BUT IF U HAVE NO REASON TO THINK THIS WAS NOT YOUR CHILD WHY IN THE WORLD WOULD A MAN DO THAT , HE SAID IT NEVER CROSSED HIS MIND SHE WAS NOT HIS FOR 10 YEARS . I HAVE TO SAY MARIE DID SEEM EVIL TO ME.

Women can to be evil. You need to wake up!

Women like that are now and through the centuries the mot evil and vile. There is NO good reason for adultery let alone paternity fraud. She was not to afraid to sleep with other men. Stop make excuses for whores like her. She and her adulterous partner should pay the sole burden. ANy adie form her ex hsuband should be totally voluntary