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October 29, 2007, 7:01 am PDT

10/29 Parent Trap

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The actual biological father should have to pay support.  If the child and former "father" wishes to continue a good and established relationship, then it is of best interest to do so.  That does not mean financial support to the mother.  She has already done him enough wrong.

I absolutely agree!!!!  The mis-lead father should be allowed to continue the relationship, but not be responsible for the money aspect.  This way, the child and man are not held responsible for what the so called 'woman' did to both of these innocent people.
 
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October 29, 2007, 1:13 pm PDT

10/29 Parent Trap

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The actual biological father should have to pay support.  If the child and former "father" wishes to continue a good and established relationship, then it is of best interest to do so.  That does not mean financial support to the mother.  She has already done him enough wrong.

WELL SAID!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

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October 29, 2007, 1:23 pm PDT

10/29 Parent Trap

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The actual biological father should have to pay support.  If the child and former "father" wishes to continue a good and established relationship, then it is of best interest to do so.  That does not mean financial support to the mother.  She has already done him enough wrong.

I think he should not have to pay child support for a child that is not his.  He should still have a relationship with the child.  The mother should have to pay back all the child support he has paid.
 
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October 29, 2007, 1:57 pm PDT

10/29 Parent Trap

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The actual biological father should have to pay support.  If the child and former "father" wishes to continue a good and established relationship, then it is of best interest to do so.  That does not mean financial support to the mother.  She has already done him enough wrong.

I agree. It is not fair to the man to make him think he is the biological father and make him pay support while the biological father is running around foot loose and fancy free and not having to take responsibility for his child. A child should know who the real father is. The child may have a medical emergency and only the real parent can help save his/her life. It would be kinda late to try to find the real father then, wouldn't it? Women ought to stop playing these games that affect other lives. (Men too), Women should stop letting themselves get pregnant. I say that because women are in control of their bodies. Men and women should stop having unprotected sex and making babies.  Some woman get money from both men.
 
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October 29, 2007, 2:16 pm PDT

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The actual biological father should have to pay support.  If the child and former "father" wishes to continue a good and established relationship, then it is of best interest to do so.  That does not mean financial support to the mother.  She has already done him enough wrong.

the parent trap...we must make it mandatory that with every birth a DNA is part of the birth certificate program.  EVERY WOMEN HAVING A  BABY MUST SUBMIT TO A DNA  producture with the INNOCENT man being named as the FATHER...NO EXCEPTIONS....Ill bet gloria alred will be seeing RED at that law
 

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October 29, 2007, 2:47 pm PDT

The Biological Father

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The actual biological father should have to pay support.  If the child and former "father" wishes to continue a good and established relationship, then it is of best interest to do so.  That does not mean financial support to the mother.  She has already done him enough wrong.

I agree, the biological father should pay support, but have a question.  When should it start?  from birth?  from the time the DNA was done? Now?  When?

 

Also, as the "other" man he should be sued for "alienation of affection" (just kidding).  But kidding aside, he not only had an affair with a married woman, but fathered a child by her.  Everyone has suffered in this, except him--especially the child.  But who knows, he might feel very sorry that he has a child he doesn't know, and want to be in her life...  This would really complicate things, however... 

 

Eventually, I believe he should be contacted (maybe he saw this show) and the child should learn who he is.  She has a right to know who her biological father is.

 
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October 29, 2007, 3:22 pm PDT

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The actual biological father should have to pay support.  If the child and former "father" wishes to continue a good and established relationship, then it is of best interest to do so.  That does not mean financial support to the mother.  She has already done him enough wrong.

Granted the way the "father " handled this with the child was unfair to her but after hearing her  ( the child )speak she is being coached by the mother who is a liar and cheat and couldn't care less about the child only her revenge on her ex husband . She ( the cheating mother ) sat there very smug and high and mighty and she was the one who was deceptive and cunning all those years.

I am surprised at Dr. Phil who basically gave her a pass , if he really was honest he would have told her she was the one who was responsible for this horrific situation she put her innocent daughter in and if the truth be told the " father should have both girls in his custody because that lying SOB ( mother ) should never be allowed to see the children again because her lessons in life are vindictive.

And Dr. Phil having the Lawyer Gloria A on to sell her book was very cheesey this was an important topic and I feel you missed the whole point ..

 
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October 29, 2007, 4:51 pm PDT

who is the real victim

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The actual biological father should have to pay support.  If the child and former "father" wishes to continue a good and established relationship, then it is of best interest to do so.  That does not mean financial support to the mother.  She has already done him enough wrong.

A crime has been committed yet we are overlooking and even condoning this type of behavior. Fraud in all its forms is very serious and should be looked on as such especially when it can land the victim of the fraud in jail. As we know if a man doesn"t pay court ordered child support he can put all his professional licenses in jeopardy as well as his freedom. Now add to that having to pay and knowing the child is not yours. A bitter bill to swallow yet the true prepretator goes unpunished and is rewarded financially. Is this America? No wonder we have an illegal immigration problem.  Punish the victim and reward the criminal duh.

I had little respect for Gloria Alred before the program now I have even less. Attorneys like her are what is wrong with the justice system. When a wrong has been done to someone let us try to right the wrong instead of continuing to wrong them just because of their gender or because the law is wriiten that way. When it is discovered that anyone is paying out money as a result of fraud that person should be given relief immediately regardless of whether there is a child involved or not . Support of the child should be assigned to the biological parents in all situations. How can we expect people to respect and honor the law if the law is not fair and just but biased and unjust. Gloria Alred has no sense of right and wrong or moral and honest but like so many in her profession what is schisty dishonest and corrupt but legal.

The mother of this poor unfortunate child in this sordid affair should tell the girl who here real father is,reimburse the accused father for the court order child support, stand trial for fraud if possible and hopefully do time in jail as an example to other mothers who play with people lives in such a dastardly way. Not only did she lie to her ex husband but lied to her child about who her father really was . Shame shame shame .

 
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October 29, 2007, 5:05 pm PDT

What kind of a person

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The actual biological father should have to pay support.  If the child and former "father" wishes to continue a good and established relationship, then it is of best interest to do so.  That does not mean financial support to the mother.  She has already done him enough wrong.

Shocking that someone would put money ahead of a child's welfare. The new wife is witchy and responsible for the injury to the child. Her focus was to do damage to the ex-wife and get finished paying child support. Awful person. I can't understand why the audience was clapping for her. Are they as insensive as she is?
 
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October 29, 2007, 5:31 pm PDT

ray charles could see this

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The actual biological father should have to pay support.  If the child and former "father" wishes to continue a good and established relationship, then it is of best interest to do so.  That does not mean financial support to the mother.  She has already done him enough wrong.

Loving eyes can never see. When I say the child in question I could  see that he was not the father. It is apparent that the father is black unless the girl has been in the sun for a very long time before she came on the show.The girls mother has a lot of nerve trying to insist that he pay support for a child that  is not his and the poor fool that she married this time had better rethink his decision. Run don"t walk as far away from this evil deluded woman as you can possibly get or u will be next. She has no character and by becoming a part of this vile and malious scheme which has been going on for 13 years I must question her new husbands character The smartest person in this sick ghetto mess is the real father who got away from this situation  years ago and has not been seen sense. Or has he ?  We could ask her but she would probably lie.

 


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