Quote From: justbehonest1. Women cheats on man who loves and trusts her and puts unsuspecting husband at risk of disease....
2. Women tricks man into supporting a child that's not his for 18 years....costing him, how much money?
3. Women claims this man is a horrible person BUT, oh yeah, he makes more money than the bio dad (I bet you ANYTHING, I'll place my life on that because we all know what this type of low life women is after) and his money IS GOOD enough...but he does not get to see child?
4. The bio dad, is, WHERE in all this?
5. Man finds out after 10 years that his entire marriage and relationship was based on lies and cheating and he's supposed to be happy about it and not have any feelings of hurt?
6. The burden of the lie is placed in this poor child and unsuspecting man? This could go on forever, it just SO WRONG IN EVERY WAY!!!
How can this women live with herself? She has serious MENTAL problems and anyone who would do this to their own children and then FORCE the poor man to pay child support is VERY CRUEL!
Not to mention the SYSTEM itself is akin to "rape". It takes something that would normally be reasonably pleasurable and turns it into a nightmare. I truly believe that most parents want to support their children. It's a completely different situation when it's forced upon a person. You feel violated and powerless and can be violated on a whim if you dare speak up to her X. You see your children at their convenience unless you are lucky enough to have an order for visitation. That part of a break up isn't covered by any pro-bono system if one parent refuses. Therefore, the ONLY thing the "system" is set up for is collecting money, not helping parents have access to their children.
Again, descriptions of rape seems an appropriate metaphor.
