Replies to '12/25 Parent Trap'

Selina has to be having all types of problems related to her mother's infidelity, her father's absence and accusations, her stepmother's animosity, etc.  Some one needs to explain to Selina that she was not a mistake.  Imagine feeling a sense of guilt about your own existence? 

If I could talk to Selina I would say, "God made you.  He has a purpose for your life.  You have people in your life whose life you brighten just by being in it.  You matter."

I disagree greatly with that. Although I think you are right the biological father should be found and should be the one responsible to pay the child support, Selina's mother did in no way reuin Selina's relationship with her dad. He is the one who chose to not see her. He still came and picked up Selian's sister but left Selina. In no way did her mother ruin the relationship. Her father started dating someone who decided by herself that Selina couldn't be the father and decided to have him take a DNA test. Although he may not be the biological father I feel after 10 years of their great relationship he was a complete and total jerk to just throw her asside like that.

I know Selina well, and I knew her before she was ten as well as after. I remember how much she cared for and admired her father. I know how hard this was on her, being another thing I agree with above is that no one understands the devistation this leaves on her. She grew up awfully fast when this happend, but she still had trouble realizing it wasn't her fault. Also as well as knowing Selina I knew her mother, which makes it harder to read the awful things people are writing about her, because she is a great person who made a mistake, but still wants the best for her daughters.

Sorry, just my little two sence. I couldn't read all these comments without responding.