Replies to '12/25 Parent Trap'

Quote From: believeucan

First of all, the mother should be held accountable in some way shape or form!!! She's the one that started the whole thing to begin with. She lied, cheated and totally abused the marriage in the first place. Why isn't SHE being punished in all this??? Next, if a man doesn't KNOW that his wife cheated on him, how in the world would he suspect his "child" not being his own??? In my opinion, when a man is deceived by who is really a child's father, he should NOT have to pay child support once he does find out. I think he should have the right to CHOOSE if he continues to pay or not WITHOUT penalty. He should also be allowed to remain in the child's life as an active figure if the CHILD so chooses and he should not have to pay to continue the relationship. He was clearly wronged into thinking he was the father and if he  has proof he isn't, then the mother should be punised and that man should have free rain to choose his destiny with the child. Money doesn't have to be the issue. IF the man is not the father and he doesn't wish to continue paying for another man's child, BUT he wants to continue the relationship with the child he should be allowed to do that. (Afterall, didn't Ms. Allred state that the child was the one needing the attention??? What has that got to do with the man continuing to be deleted of his money after finding out he's not the father??) The child can still be the main focus, but the man shouldn't be punished for a deceptive mother!