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October 29, 2007, 3:09 pm PDT
The child...
Quote From: clinetime
None of the adults around this child have given a thought or one care for her, it's all about poor dad who was lied to, or poor mom who is not getting child support. They should be ashamed of themselves, they are both unfit parents!!!! I would'nt leave a dog I hated with either of them.... True love for your child is putting her needs above your own, that means sacrifice! If I was the daughter I would get Gloria Allred and sue bio mom, bio dad, and that dad on the birth certificate, as well as his current wife for mental anguish, and emotional abuse!!! They are the lowest of the low to hurt a child like that....and do not deserve any sympathy!!!! The only one who does is Selena, may God bless her! ...is always lost in situations like these. It is so sad. That is the main reason I CHOSE not to seek child support from my youngest daughter's biological father. Knowing that he was worthless and that pursuing that avenue would be much like getting blood out of a turnip, I chose not to go there at all. All in all it protected her from the trauma she would have endured because of it. He was an abusive alcoholic with a life threatening gambling addiction and a dysfucntional existence that would have done nothing but bring her pain. He's been out of our lives since she was six months old and it was the best thing I've ever done. I wrote an article about it to bring attention to this side of the child support coin. It is hard to live without that financial support but it can be done. Thank the gods I have a good man that stepped up to fill his irresponsible shoes and be the kind of father that she can be proud of. He supports not only my 3 kids from two previous marriages but also his daughter from a previous relationship. We dont make it through the weekend without being broke, cant afford to do any real grocery shopping...the trailer we live in is falling apart because we cant afford the necessary repairs but we are happy and safe and love each other and that matters above everything else.
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