Quote From: soulshaknI have mixed feelings about this whole case. Taking the Law (Family Law) out of this situation, I think that it is morally and ethically wrong for any woman to place that kind of responsibility on any man that is not the responsible party.
However, I think women should be held reponsible for this wrong-doing if it was willfully and knowingly done. Every dime of child support should be paid back. Her wrongful actions should also be punishable by law because it is a crime. It robs the child, father, and whole family.
On the ohter hand, I also feel that the child's best interest should be consider and that the relationship of the two should continue if both parties (child and dad) mutally agrees to do so. If and only if, the "dad" so chooses, he could continue to financially support the child. Even if he elects to put a descretionary amount of money in an account for the child until the child reaches the age of maturity. This should not be a court order.
I think that in a case like this, all parties should be court ordered to attend some sort of group sessions/therapy. The classes/sessions should consist of teaching the children that the actions of the mother is morally wrong and how they can avoid making these kinds of mistakes when they becoome adults. You know, a class on honesty and integrity??? - that there is a consequence to every action and a reaction to every action....
It's very sad to say, but maybe paternity tests should be given at birth to avoid this from happening in the future!
It's people like your son that make me feel better about our world today. It is never about the donner it's about the person that wasnt asked to be here. If everyone in this world wasn't so worried about money and pride life would be good for all
