Replies to '12/25 Parent Trap'

Quote From: alaskanwoman

My personal opinion on this is regardless of whether he is the biological father, he still should have considered the child and never chose that way to inform this child of what he had found out.  That is not her problem and he should have not stop the visitation.  That was a selfish and childish move on his part to just deny her his visits, affection, his love after all those years to just cut it out just like that.  I believe if I would have been in his shoes that I would have chose to still have a relationship with the girl but maybe not having to pay child support (if that was such an issue).  If you have had a family together that many years and loved that little girl all those years, how in lthe world could you ever deny her your love even if she was not your biological daughter.  Adopted parents love their children even if they are not the biological parent.  I know that he was deceived and that was totally wrong on the mother part but still no reason for him to put the child in the middle of that problem between the adults.