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October 30, 2007, 2:17 pm PDT
agree
Quote From: terrbinOrdinarily, neither do I. But then what do you propose? Since the biological father is nowhere in sight , do you propose we endorse that the only father she has known abandon her financially (like many here suggest)? Who really has more to lose in this terrible situation? The daughter, or the adult? It is about choosing the lesser of two evils. Life's choices aren't always black and white, nor are the choices necessarily good for ALL involved. This is why there is a CHOICE to be made at all. Neither choice is fair to both father and child simultaneously. Nevertheless, I feel strongly that the MORAL decision (which the father in this case should have made WILLINGLY) is to continue loving AND financially supporting his daughter, rather than make her pay for what that awful woman did. Love the child more than you hate the mother... That's the lesser of the two evils in my book. You said it well and I heartily agree with you. No mention of the wife #2 however. Who was the one who made sure this was brought into the open in the first place? Wrong tho I think it was of the mother to lie to begin with, I can understand what her reasons might have been. Wife #2 is truly evil in my book. She didn't care one wit about the child, only the money that her husband was paying out. She is a sick, cold, cold human being. i find her the most henious of all.
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