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October 30, 2007, 2:10 pm PDT
Should Enrique Pay?
Quote From: jstileI'm really sad you think Enrique should continue to pay! It is not his responsibility. The mother lyed and deceived and made Enrique hurt and angry. His first response was snapping in anger for the injustice that was done him.
If you forced Maria to pay back all support and ordered permenant visitation for Enrique you would defuse his anger to the injustice therefore freeing him to love the child, voluntarily. And then the child would bennifit with a voluntary, loveing, relationship with the only man she knew as a father. I did not say that he should pay. Actually I think that the same laws that requires him to pay also protects the emotional investment that he has with the child. The mother seems to think she can keep the girl away from her "father." Most states have laws about children born in a marriage. They protect all parties involved in some way. With DNA evidence maybe the legislature needs to come up with new laws regarding fraud. Maybe babies will routinely be tested when it becomes more cost effective. Who knows where we will go with this. I don't know how I feel about him paying. I guess I think he has paid enough. I know that Selina has paid too much.
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