Quote From: cissie88When my son was a junior in highschool his former gilfriend tried to pull that on him.....this was 1992, and I told him
then "If you are responsible we'll stand by you and help. But first we're gonna find out if you are." It's simple LOGIC to question the motives of a bitter and angry ex. I don't just blindly believe what I'm told.
Enriue's situation is different.
Sometimes its not that easy to see through to someone's motives, and you're left with trusting them to tell the truth. They're not all exes, and they're not all bitter.
Hooray for you to have had the forethought to suggest that your son question his accuser, but my comment was directed at you specifically for calling Carnell "stupid" for not getting DNA testing --- do you have any idea how long ago his child was born? Carnell started his organization in 2001, so I'm assuming he did that AFTER he was victimized by the fraud, which he discovered when his child was roughly 11 (I'm using rough recollection from the show)?? Someone correct me if I'm wrong, but that is what I'm thinking.
DNA wasn't really an option for people until very recent years - so you may may want to stop and think before calling someone "stupid." He was victimized - ALL men who are told this lie are victimized to some degree - and you and your son don't have a corner on the market just because you think you're so clever to ask for a test.
