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November 15, 2007, 7:45 am PST

Daughter in Danger

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 I think this girl maybe brainwashed why would she stay with a dude that is abusive? I think he is just using her to get a greencard. I am betting dollars to doughnuts she had already elopted with this dude.  Her mom needs to get her daughter out of this quick before something real bad happens to her.
She is definitely in danger.  By coming there without a parent, and when she was 16 originally, and by living with him before marriage, his culture sees her as a whore.  He will treat her accordingly.  He has probably confiscated her passport, so she might think she can't get away.  Her mom needs to GO THERE immdeiately to "visit" her daughter.  She should take several relatives along, including at least one male, preferrably a big burly one.  If Katherine wants to leave, get her to the consulate, and make sure they brought identifying documents.  A passport can be issued on the spot.  Get her out if she's at all willing.  If not, keep some family there and build a rapport with his family so you can get her out when she's ready. This must be done before she has kids, or he'll do anything to keep them.  In that culture, kids go with the father after a split.  Also, pray.
 
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November 15, 2007, 9:00 pm PST

Him Using Her??

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 I think this girl maybe brainwashed why would she stay with a dude that is abusive? I think he is just using her to get a greencard. I am betting dollars to doughnuts she had already elopted with this dude.  Her mom needs to get her daughter out of this quick before something real bad happens to her.

Excuse me- how can he possibly be using Katherine? What purpose is there for him doing that to her?

He has not been trying in any way to get a visa to go to America, so how would he ever get his "green card"? I really think he is just using her for his own pleasure, and not for the sake of marrying her or loving her. I do hope Dr. Phil gets her to come back home, if Abdullah really loves her, then he will smarten up and get his visa. Remember what his name was for "My Space"? He called himself "Psycho". so has anybody explored that idea,  that maybe he is a psycho, and may harm Katherine rather than let her go home? Lets' hope we get some updates on this show, and let us know what happens and what the future holds for Katherine. We all know that girls are very hard to raise, they would rather just do their own thing, without any consequences to pay. I can understand what this mother is going through, the same as I have with my daughter, very stubborn, wanted her way all the time and did not give a darn what her family said. Now, she is using drugs, divorced, remarried, gave up custody of her 3 kids, and the family has nothing to do with her anymore after all the trouble we have been through with her and her using drugs. Thank You

 
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November 24, 2007, 1:51 pm PST

Greencard

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 I think this girl maybe brainwashed why would she stay with a dude that is abusive? I think he is just using her to get a greencard. I am betting dollars to doughnuts she had already elopted with this dude.  Her mom needs to get her daughter out of this quick before something real bad happens to her.
Except, he doesn't really seem to be trying to get a greencard, or even a visa for that matter. I think he is up to something, and it's not good for her. Did anyone believe his "I had a house in Palm springs" story?
 


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