Replies to '06/24 Banned from the Wedding, Part 2'

THESE FOLKS NEED TO MOVE PAST WHO SAID WHAT...COME ON NOW...ANGER IS SUCH A WASTED EMOTION....AND WHAT IF SOMETHING AWFUL HAPPENED TO ONE OF THEM THEY WOULD FEEL AWFUL...

LIFE IS TOO SHORT FOR THIS KIND OF PETTY STUFF...I HOPE THEY CAN GET PAST THE JUNK AND LEARN TO FORGIVE AND MOVE FORWARD AND STOP FINGERPOINTING AND NAME CALLING.....

This boy man has no feelings.  His feelings are only his control freaks wife's feelings.  He is a spoiled brat and is marrying the biggest bitch on earth.  Good luck.

 

They will go on to produce kids just like them....kids that no one will be able to stand if they're like their Mother.

 

This girl is an all too true example of today's young woman.  Must control, must get rid of husband's parents, must get all the attention on herself.  I wish, Dr. Phil, that you would just one time, see what is going on.   His Mother is a person who is losing her son to a brat who you are allowing to win~~~!!.  Have some pity.  Can ya do that?

After watching the ganging up on this poor woman I was so disgusted... This girl needs a good butt kicking. I cannot imagine how hurt Jane must have been over not being able to see her only child get married.  This girl is a spoiled brat and thinks she is in control.  Jay needs to grow a set... please what a whimp.  of course, Michelle has all the cards, mostly because he's still in lust.. when he wakes up and realizes what a spoiled brat he married and she dumps him  for somebody else because he might stand up to her, he will be asking Mom for advice.. Hopefully he doesn't reproduce with that little witch and the world is spared the little brats she might raise.  Her mother is just as bad. I would have told my daughter too bad you will show his mother respect and move on and the anger and hurt over the wedding will linger forever.  I could never forgive my son if this happened to me.  I am a mother in law also, but my son in law and I have a relationship that allows him to say Mom don't do that and I can say to him the same things.

Sorry Dr. Phil I think this could have been handled better.

 

The daughter-in-law is so out of line in this situation. The son also needs to realize that he will only have one mother in his life. Maybe his mother has done some things that he is not happy about, but his wife is already way too controlling considering they just got married. I hope he steps it up and tries to meet his mother half way. His wife should not have anything to say about his choice to try to reconcile the relationship with his mother. Most of us that are married or have been married realize that there are things about in-laws that we may not like or may not agree with, but because you love your spouse you try your hardest to get along and accept others. If Michelle really can't get along with Jane she should at least encourage her husband to fix the situation or at some point her husband will resent the fact that she ruined his relationship with his family. Nothing good will come from the bitterness and anger. I have never wanted to yell back at someone on TV as much as I wanted to jump into the TV and put Michelle in her place. Hopefully they will try as hard as Jane has to change their ungracious ways.

But, begin with the groom.  He is the key here, and he should never have allowed this to go this far.  He owes his wife loyalty, and his mother respect.  He is failing all around.

 

I am a mother in law, and was an honored guest in my son's weddings.  If it had been otherwise, I would have said "you won't be bothered with me until you grow up enough to see both points of view"

 

This mother in law was not wise.  But, neither was she the only one who was wrong.  It was obvious that the bride was establishing her 'power' also.  The letters she sent to her husband's mother in the first show, said exactly that..The darling bride did not give her prospective mother in law the respect she deserved as his mother, either.  If she had, things might have been much different.  And I repeat..the son/groom/boy was not doing his job.  He will probably live to see his mistakes, and heaven help him if he does not give in to the little wifey..hmmm...karma?  Could be. One day, they will have a little one, who will grow into an 'almost' man or woman, and they will understand a lot more about where Jane was coming from, I will warrant.

 

I would say to all three...Time passes so quickly.  Don't waste it.  You can't get it back, once it is gone.  Your hind-sight being 20/20 will not help then. 

 

And to Dr. Phil...I think your emphasis on just Jane, or Mostly Jane missed the mark here..just an opinion from an uneducated elder...

 

I'd say max 4 years.

Jay, id bet u hurting inside.

How can u let all this sh*t happens?

Man up, you will see Michelles true color here soon.

 

I'd like u mom stay away anyway, so its not her fault for your marriage to brake apart!

When michelle its done with ur mom... she will pick on u!

You both must not make mistake being so rightous like that!

You'll rip what u sew!

I DO NOT LIKE this Michelle AT ALL!    I think she's manipulative and I do not have children so do not accuse me of seeing her through those eyes, I think Michelle is trouble.  Big Trouble!!   Her now husband has been taken over by her accusations.  Michelle needs some serious help!!!  Michelle does not want to makes things work with her MOL. Michelle wants center stage!!  Michelle is trouble, BIG TIME!!!

Not quite sure what his "profession" was that he had to hide his face, but I would say it was actually hiding from embarrassment!  He has no "b_lls".  From the first show through this one it was Michelle "All About Me".  Her mouth ran constantly.  She controlled every conversation with her whining and her hatefulness.  If she is this way to the mother of her husband, I can only imagine how she deals with life on a daily basis.  And there sat her mother, defending her! 

 

And, the fact that she couldn't see what a brat she is after watching the replay of the show leads you to understand that she completely and totally revels in the grandstanding and drama.  I would bet that if it isn't this, she will find some other drama to stir up.  And, of course, it will always be someone else's fault!   

 

Sorry, Jay.....you married a first class whining, gotta have it my way, it's all about me, immature, brat, "B".  However, with your lack of intestinal fortitude and your lack of respect for your mother......you deserve her!  

 

Dr. Phil.......totally disappointed at the way you let BOTH Jay and Michelle continue to rant and rave.  Giving that girl air time to have her tantrums........shame on you! 

I have to say that I have never in my life seen someone act so smug on your show then Michelle did on the past two episodes that I witnessed with her appearing.  I have to say that I don't really understand what all the mother in law has done.  Yes I see that she has called her some hurtful names and such.  But I see a hateful little girl that thinks she is always right.  She thought she was so cute setting up there on stage and that you weren't going to call her to the carpet for anything.  I have always been a faithfull and loyal watcher of you Dr. Phil even when you were on Oprah, but I have to say that I don't think you said near enough direct things to this little girl that I can clearly see is more than half of the problem.  She even commented on the second episode today that she was "cute" when you rolled a scene from the first show.  That just makes me sick.  It also made me sick as to how both of them feel the mother owes an apology, but they don't!  I really wish you would have told them both that they are so very wrong here.  I think that not only does the mother in law need to seek professional help, but so do they.

I have a wonderful mother in law, she treats me like a daughter, In my family both my parents got a divorce, and both remarried, my step dad is the best and i love him to death, and my step mom, she is truly the greatest and i love her too, my family is not picture perfect, but i was blessed. I have a husband that treats me great, more awesome than i expected. we have three kids and they are doing great and trea their soon to be spouses great, i am gaining a daughter in law and a son in law, i respect their choices, and i do NOT think they are bad ones either, i feel my kids chose good people to be with for the rest of their life( i hope)

all i have is one at home, she is 17, her pans are going into the military(airforce) and later get married, but not right now.

so there is hope out there for those who try to make it work, being a pain in the rear, only will make you a bitter person and be alone.

Robin C........... in Oklahoma