Quote From: dsarmstrongYou should be ashamed of yourselves. Family is one of the most important things you will have in life. I do not have family and would give anything to have one. I would do whatever was possible to try and ensure peace and love within the family. This is the time of year for sharing and loving and you need to understand that ALL families will ave problems. The mature person will extend the olive branch and try and make peace. A wedding is such a special time that is suppose to bring 2 families together not drive them apart. Now that you have had your 15 minutes of fame over this, move past it. Learn to forgive. As it states in the Bible, if you do not forgive one another then God cannot forgive you. Love each other, put the past in the past an live for today because tomorrow may never come. Stop being selfish and open your arms to everyone. One day I pray you realie what you have missed out on by pushing your family away. If you really do not want a family, I would be more than happy to accept them into my life. I would love to have someone I could turn to in good times as well as bad times. The words of the Bible are being fulfilled very quickly. Take a deep breath, step back, regroup, apologize and ask for forgiveness. It will bring blessings into your life if you learn to forgive and forget. I will pray that God will bring this family back together in love, peace and haromy.
Blessing in God,
Donna
Donna,
Im really sorry that you do not have any family. Ill will be more glad to share mine with you. ITs easy for you to sit back and say the things that you have said because obviously you havent had the experiences that some of us have had with our familes. Just because these "people" are our family doesnt mean we have to have a relationship with them. For example: I have a sister that is 55 years old and stole my mothers identity. Yes, it is called Identity Theft. She shows no remorse for what she did. Now, because of this, I do not choose to have a realationship with her. You cant trust these kind of people. I have given her family money in time of need, and she has chosen to lie and steal and I do not feel like I will ever have a relationship with her ever again. So, until you have been in such a situation then I think you need to think again about wanting family. Sometimes its more heartache than its worth.
