Quote From: wow1960Donna,
Im really sorry that you do not have any family. Ill will be more glad to share mine with you. ITs easy for you to sit back and say the things that you have said because obviously you havent had the experiences that some of us have had with our familes. Just because these "people" are our family doesnt mean we have to have a relationship with them. For example: I have a sister that is 55 years old and stole my mothers identity. Yes, it is called Identity Theft. She shows no remorse for what she did. Now, because of this, I do not choose to have a realationship with her. You cant trust these kind of people. I have given her family money in time of need, and she has chosen to lie and steal and I do not feel like I will ever have a relationship with her ever again. So, until you have been in such a situation then I think you need to think again about wanting family. Sometimes its more heartache than its worth.
I feel very sad for you that you feel about anyone the way you do. Grow up. My mom is dying from colon
cancer and you act the way you do; you see what you are putting Jay through. I have a brother just like
you they don't want to be bothered they think they are #1. Hey, Dr. Phil tried to tell you that you are just
NOT being gracious and that was putting it nicely - I think your husband is a wimp and you are making
him more so. He didn't want his face shown probably because he is ashamed and ashamed of you
and his choice. It's hard to back out now, but there will come a time, you just wait. Donna had a few
good things to say. I have lived a long time (60) and I have learned much. You have a long way to go.
