Quote From: st_tngP.S.: My sister tops her Christmas tree with a skull; calls herself evil; whenever I've tried to convince her otherwise, she says she's not worth "bothering" about; and has told me, "We will never have a relationship." Please pray for her and her family.
I am saying a prayer the minute I stop typing. She's unhappy and not at peace. You can't change that obviously. You can still; however, continue to reach out to her and let her know the door is always open.
If I were you, I'd mail her a loving card every few months and let her know you love her and always will, REGARDLESS of everything. When she's ready, she'll return to you. She may never be ready, which is very sad. However, you can't make her choices for her. Just be there for her.
God bless you. It's sad that life has to be so chaotic at times. God grants such peace to those who open their hearts. Perhaps one day her heart will be open to hear. Until that time, just let her know you're there and continue to find and keep peace in your own life. Merry Christmas....
