Replies to '12/25 Parent Trap'

It's a new day. The show did not accompolish anything because the mother was not hearing it she just want her money which in other words its called greedy. All we know is what was said on the show but no one knows what has been said or done between both parties to become public. in both cases each parent is at fault to where the child is involved. It seems that no one is telling the child that she is loved and the other sibling also has feeling too. If you take one you have to take the other not meaning money its time. The mother is concerned about the money do I recall her being married to someone else; however, this is not the case she need not to rely on her ex-husband money. She need to take care of her mess and start earning her own income and take care of her children.

I feel that children that the mother has chosen to remove them permanently from their natural fathers lives, are hurting those children severely...unless of course the natural father is not a good role model and perhaps would cause his children further harm than what the divorce had already created.

Especially if all the mother is really a protesting is the lack of financial support.

For believe it or not...lots of Americans are out of work and what work that is found is quite limiting financially to say the least.

This again is a putting the $ before the children for I feel that our children need both parents a working together in the mix...

By doing so, we are once again the example of how two people unable to live together, can still go on a loving the children created in the scenerio of life...

I have had two divorces myself, and I now realize that the smartest thing I could have done after divorcing my sons father, was to place them and myself in counseling...unfortunately, the finances weren't there to do this for me...or my children.

I heard a judge once state to a couple that were in battle over custody, something to the effect of this:  "What one parent puts down into the minds of children about another parent, will come back and bite them later."  "For when that child grows up, they will realize that the other parent wasn't all that bad and it was purely the parent that raised the children's need to have total control over the children...even their feelings of the other parent.

"When we are children, we think like children, when we grow up, we put away our childish thoughts."

Don't worry dear parent, you will one day have your children back...and if not as adults...when they return Home to God, they will know the real truth about their lives and the parent that bore false witness...about their parent they never really knew.

I pray you will have your reunion of hearts not allowed to be shared...never stop reaching out to her with letters, for maybe one day she will realize the truths that were never told.

Peace to you, dear one.

Tonie