Quote From: renagadewifes heels are dug in. She is dead wrong to feel that it is only your responsibility to take care of the home - It's supposed to be shared!!! One of the reasons you have no money is that your checking account is always overdrawn - with $25 being taken by the bank for every nsf check - good grief man - that adds up - have you ever added up those nsf chgs and told her to look. Maybe she can't handle reality. Just by what you say - she sounds selfish - but as Phil says 'no matter how flat you make the pancake, there's always two sides.
I am going to tell you to somehow make contact with her and see if you can pentrate her cranial activity.
Thank you for the response.
Actually as I type we just had another argument about this topic again. I asked her again to see if she can get a part time job to cover the dry times we she does not make income. She will not respond to me. I suggest that we sell the car but she is not willing. Yes she is selfish. She does go to work and feel that is enough or count towards the living of the household. I see it as more a income or financial way. Not to say that a certain amount of money is needed to made, but I don't know how she can go to work daily and not have any income and then be upset that we are broke. It takes money to survive! Also yes! the NFS fees to add sometimes in the hundreds. She refuses to check the account to see the status of the balance only ask me or ask other s for money. I have been looking around for other options I am very tried from working. I have invested a lot of money and time to get a good education to not live like this. I have been trying to see what is wrong but she will not talk or just yell back. I do agree that see does not see the reality of life. I have tried to motivate her but I find myself over time now being depressed...now we have two people depressed. I will try again tonight to see if marriage counsel will work. Maybe she will tell some else the problem. In the meantime I am sure how long I can hold on with the expenses before something bad happens.
Thanks again!
