Quote From: alejbar21My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now. I am 20 years old and he is 36, he has 2 wonderful children from a previous marriage. They are 10 and 12I get along with them great, he got a divorce because she cheated on him and got pregnant. I have recently tryed to talk to him about where he thinks our relationship is going and he really dosn't like to talk about it...He says to "just let things go where they go" which i guess is fine for him but I can't do that. I have already put a year toward this relationship and I realize I would love nothing more then to marry him...Ok I'm not talking about doing this tomorrow I just want some kind of sign that it might happen in the future. And he can't give that to me...I'm not sure he wants to get married again because he was hurt so badly in the past...If anyone has any advice about what I should do or how I should handle this situation I would greatly appreciate it....Thanks..........................
my boyfriend just went through a long custody battle with his ex over his seven year old daughter and won. The thing is, he was promising to marry me as soon as the trial was over and now that he got her, he wants to wait and acts like he is scared to do anything to cross his ex or anything that will piss her off and it is making our relationship hell!!!
He does everything his ex wants and his daughter wants in fear of making them mad.
How do i get him over this and let us have a new start together withgout worrying about what shes gonna do next? Do i give him an ultimatum? Do I confront his ex or stay out of it? I know he is very in love with me and hates his ex and doesnt want to see his daughter go back to her because she is a control feek.. but sometimes i wonder who is in control of our relationship? the ex? the daughter, or him??He wont even tell his ex or daughter that he plans for us to get married in june!!
