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January 25, 2008, 1:06 pm PST
01/25 Secrets in the Suburbs
Quote From: cemjlmI think it is SICK, SICK, SICK to even think of doing. Renee I am like you I could NOT Ever, Never even share my husband with one other person let alone two others. I KNOW for a fact you should NOT cave in to your husbands demand. Leave HIM! There are wonderful men that can't stand that sort of thing either. and you deserve the BEST in a marriage. Men say they are primeavel and meant to share. Well woman Aren't.....A husband whom is completely yours in every way, especially in LOVE MAKING is the most precious and beautiful thing there is in a marriage don't sell yourself short. I have to have LOVE MAKING not just CHEAP sex for my self worth and I think you do too.
Please Renee do not go that route when you so strongly oppose it. You would be miserable and could get depressed and despondant over time with this kind of pressure put on YOU. DON"T do it. I have been very happily married for 50 years MAKING wonderful LOVE to my husband and have NO regrets. I hope you will be able to do the same. Now that I've actually seen the show, I noticed that Renee did give
in, having sex with another man while Brent watched. Since she did it
once, he probably thinks he can get her to do it again. Probably knows
just which "button" to push, her aversion to being alone. Why do I say
this? Renee admitted to Dr Phil that she hadn't been without a man in
her life since HS. Sounds like a whole lot of settling, to me. And, for
what? To escape being alone? But, it's better to be alone. Than to
settle for whatever comes down the pike.
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