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You couldn't be farther from the truth!  Granted there are some that do have low self esteem or are not fully comfortable with this and do it for their significant others and as you can see from some of the other posts, that does not work.  But for those of us that do this of our own choice and do enjoy it, our self esteems are quiet high!  Think about it, how could you walk into a room completely naked with your head held high if you didn't have self esteem even to the point of arrogance!  As for the ones still talking about the effects on the children.  I want to teach our children that sex is a normal healthy thing that is not shameful but is something wonderful to be shared by consenting ADULTS.  I also will tells them about the dangers of unprotected sex.  There is no question that my children can't ask me that I will not answer honestly and they know that even as young as they are.  My husband and I are trying to instill that in them at a young age so that hopefully as they get older and hit their teen years they will still fill comfortable coming to us with questions about any and everything including sex.  And for the record, my 7 year old has already ask me what sex was because she say one of the government sponsored commercials that came on TV saying "Talk to your kids about sex".  And I gave her an age appropriate answer.