Quote From: celh01Lack of compassion seems to be the way this woman has lived her life with her husband and lack of compassion isn't going to motivate her .
Your strong? Well, 'good for you'! I would guess your strong because you have had other people helping you develop that strength.
Sneering at someone because they are emotionally crippled never helped anyone.
She needs a back bone and you, my dear, need a heart.
We all need two bare feet so we can step into someone else's shoes and walk a few steps. Hopefully what we see on that journey will allow us to understand a little better.
We blame each other for having human frailties and we think the strengths we have are common. They are not, we also call our ability to see things a certain way 'common sense' and it is not. We have to be able to see that our reactions are as unique as we are. Just because we live in one society it does not mean we react to situations the same.