Quote From: lettiecsAppears like Grant wants total control of his life as well as Kelly's. He may be a very insecure person to be so critical of Kelly. Grant, Remember that what you see in those night time soap opera's are all a fantasy.
When my husband nags about how something is done in the house, I remind him that he does his job the way he deems appropriate, and also,I do not go into his garage and tell him how to clean it or where to put things (I wouldn't be able to get in the garage anyway as it is full of junk!)
and he doesn't need to tell me how to do my job.
Each person in the marriage needs to feel that they are contributing and that what they do is worthwhile. Wives, as well as husbands, need to know that they are important and valuable. Words mean nothing if not backed up with action. So if you say you love your spouse, but then you criticize and demean her, she will not believe your words.
Marriage is to be a committment of mutual respect and love. Helping and supporting--not tearing down one another.
A married person cannot live for him or her own self. Each person in the partnership needs to give and compromise, and work toward making their spouse happy and secure.
I hope Grant gets a clue. Seems like he has a good heart, but his method just doesn't work.
