Replies to '07/22 Male Egos Out of Control'

    Why is it ok for women to use men? Society not only approves of this, but it is the humorus punchline in endless jokes in sitcoms and dramas on tv. It's clear women only want  one thing from men.  What men can buy them! "I don't wan't no man unless he gots a J.O.B. ".  Women are just as bad if not worse than these men.  Women use sex to get what they want. These guys are just turning the tables on beautifull women that are used to getting what they want.
     I am divorced because my ex wife had nothing left to drain from me. I was sucked spiritually, intelectually, emotionally and financially dry by her. So, she moved on to find a nother poor sucker to vamp. All I see are zombie husbands and boyfriends all over, lumbering in that walk of shame and depression.  It's about time a few men are fighting back. I wish I could be more like the guys on this show. I wish I could objectify women like they objectify me. All I am to them is a bank account until they find out that I've been bled dry. Then they have no interest in getting to know me. Professional, strong, careing or not.  I want that pamplet that guy wrote so I can have a fighting chance.
     It's a war and men are losing. I'm tired of being used. Women just don't like it being thrown back into their faces. There isn't a woman alive that hasn't used sex to get what they want. Why shouldn't the tables finally be turned on them?
     This is not the rantings of an angry or bitter divorced guy that is looking for an audience to unload his anger. I've been over that years ago.  I have made a lot of observations for over 40 years and I think it's about time men finally stood up for themselves when dealing with women. I think it's finaly time that there is some equallity.
    I have learned love is a fantasy perpetuated buy women and inflicted on young boys to fool them into thinking that a woman could possibly care for them. They do this be sure our species continues.
    Men then grow up with this fantasy in their head and can't understand why women are just using them. Why what mom taught them just doesn't jell with the real world. They keep trying what good old mom put in their head about being a good guy, be respectful, be affectionate, be a provider, be understanding, be witty, be smart, be caring, and be the responsible bread winner. Then they learn that their wifes are sleeping around on them spending all their money on shoes (because who is going to get the thousands of dollars in shoes in the divorce? Well it isn't the men). 
    They learn that there are no women anywhere on the planet that will ever want them for who they are or what is in their soul. They learn that all they are to women is a shell of resources to be drained, licked clean and the withered husk thrown in the toilet.
    I say more power to these guys. If I were younger I'd try to join them. It's to late for me. All you young men out there, learn from these guys.  The only person that will watch out for you is you. It will never be a woman. Quit being that nice guy. Look where it got me. Don't end up like me, with a life time of regret for trying to be the best guy I could be. You will never find that fantasy of "Love" because it doesn't exist.
    If you are woman and you want to say how much you pitty me, and that I'm a sad little man. Or you want to question my masculinity or some other childish assinine attack. Give it a rest. Give me a intelegent argument or go say nothing. After all these year I finally figured it out and I want help break the cycle women using men in my own little way.


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This is a real disturbing issues with these guys. John was just a narcissist. You can tell they both have no self esteem. John appears to be a kid that used to get picked on and is trying to get back at everyone that ever hurt him. He also is not even nice looking. I would have sent him an I'm not interested e-mail after his intro e-mail. He clearly does not know what women are looking for in women.

 

Paul just seems sad. He has the looks and the charm but is so alone. What women would want to say I married the man that slept with 132 different women?

 

I am recently married and always thought it was me that had the problem in the dating scene but there are a lot of screwed up men. It is amazing. I am so glad to be out of the dating circle.