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manofgoods

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May 6, 2008, 4:35 pm PDT

Sex addict?

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To Paul and all others like him:

I really don't understand how you cannot fear the hand of Our Lord God Almighty!?! You may be having your fun here on earth but it is not going to be fun when you are burning continually in hell for the rest of eternity.

Yes Paul you may be very proud of the number of woman you slept with. Soo proud you kept a list. But Paul remember God Almighty is keeping a list too. I suggest you bring it to confession with you immediately!!

May God bless you and have mercy on you Paul and all the others like you!!!

Something tells me that Paul is a sex addict if he's had sex with 132+ women. I don't believe that he has self-control at all. Sex can be quite addicting!

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May 7, 2008, 8:59 pm PDT

You're "scoring," but God is keeping score, too

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To Paul and all others like him:

I really don't understand how you cannot fear the hand of Our Lord God Almighty!?! You may be having your fun here on earth but it is not going to be fun when you are burning continually in hell for the rest of eternity.

Yes Paul you may be very proud of the number of woman you slept with. Soo proud you kept a list. But Paul remember God Almighty is keeping a list too. I suggest you bring it to confession with you immediately!!

May God bless you and have mercy on you Paul and all the others like you!!!

Amen! Guess what? There are actually some committed people of faith in this world who value *chastity* -- and I'm one of them. Yeah, Paul is attractive on the surface, but his values (or lack thereof) more than cancel out the pretty-boy good looks. And Paul, it won't do you one bit of good to gloat about your spreadsheet from the pits of hell. May the Holy Spirit convict you with the truth about the way you are living, before it's too late.

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May 8, 2008, 3:53 pm PDT

I have kept a list of 83 women

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To Paul and all others like him:

I really don't understand how you cannot fear the hand of Our Lord God Almighty!?! You may be having your fun here on earth but it is not going to be fun when you are burning continually in hell for the rest of eternity.

Yes Paul you may be very proud of the number of woman you slept with. Soo proud you kept a list. But Paul remember God Almighty is keeping a list too. I suggest you bring it to confession with you immediately!!

May God bless you and have mercy on you Paul and all the others like you!!!

I kept a list not for the reasons that most people would think. During my heyday before accepting Jesus Christ as my Lord and Saviour during 1989-1991 I had a rule that I only had sex with women on Thursday thru Sunday. At the time I was catholic and if you know anything about growing up catholic it was ok to sin because all we had to do is confess our sins to a priest on Friday. That usually followed by reciting a couple of hail Marys. I always played it safe and used a condom but in very rare ocassions I did not. I used to go out every single night in Miami and the Steven Seagal look was in at the time and of course I had long hair all one length down to my back.

I am Latin, tall at 6'2", trim and tanned but none of that will get a girls number.. its all about the Labia.. in other words what you say and how you say it. Pretty much like Paul that was on the show who obviously exudes confidence. When i had sex with a woman it wasn't the same woman I met on the same night but rather the ones I met the week before or two weeks before that. For me , I value the art of conversation rather than going on the dance floor and trying to make heads or tails of what a person is trying to say amidst the noise of the music playing.

I kept a list which was more of Larger than Large Black book where a woman's information such as her history, her vitals were kept. I was not much of a praying man at the time since I was Catholic but in the back of my mind there was always the IF someday I would get something from one of my partners. I essentially kept the womens contact information just in case i needed to refer back to them in the event there was a health issue. I have always been a private person so my idea was not to use the list of conquests for boasting. I really did enjoy the company of women and treating them well. Like a Man should treat a woman. I was surprised about that time when I met a woman that kept a similar list of the men in her life who she had sex with. It can work both ways.

In 1991, I accepted God's calling to Ministry were I am presently operating in the gifts that the Holy Spirit empowers me in but I use this old environment to speak and mentor other men with similar backgrounds. Testimony is a powerful word and to be used as a vessel to reach the lost and witness to the unsaved letting them know that there is an alternative to that lifestyle.

Be Blessed

Zach

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July 19, 2008, 9:11 am PDT

07/22 Male Egos Out of Control

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To Paul and all others like him:

I really don't understand how you cannot fear the hand of Our Lord God Almighty!?! You may be having your fun here on earth but it is not going to be fun when you are burning continually in hell for the rest of eternity.

Yes Paul you may be very proud of the number of woman you slept with. Soo proud you kept a list. But Paul remember God Almighty is keeping a list too. I suggest you bring it to confession with you immediately!!

May God bless you and have mercy on you Paul and all the others like you!!!

To Paul and all others like him:
Women are not property. What you feel when some one hurts you, is the same hurt she feels. Hearts are not toys. Someday, if you live long enough and before you meet our Lord, someone will break your heart.

Remember you have been warned. Women are not toys, either. If that is how you feel, please leave and go someplace where you apathetic ego is the norm. Where? Maybe no such place exists. Become a Muslim in one of those countries. Then when you die you get 72 virgins, in Burkas.
Women in Burkas are like a box of chocolates....You never know what you are going to get.

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July 22, 2008, 2:59 pm PDT

PAUL

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To Paul and all others like him:

I really don't understand how you cannot fear the hand of Our Lord God Almighty!?! You may be having your fun here on earth but it is not going to be fun when you are burning continually in hell for the rest of eternity.

Yes Paul you may be very proud of the number of woman you slept with. Soo proud you kept a list. But Paul remember God Almighty is keeping a list too. I suggest you bring it to confession with you immediately!!

May God bless you and have mercy on you Paul and all the others like you!!!

Dr. Phil, I know that you are a renowned psychotherapist, but I have to voice my own opinion about PAUL.

Some thing is DEFINITELY wrong with his mind and his capacity to think. A guy like him I would not like around me. There is such a thing as a RAPIST, but he rapes women mentally. I do believe he is trying to make up for his own inhibitions and his inability to perceive himself as a real man. I think behind that macho facade he is trying to hide the fact that more and more ESTROGEN is leaking through his body. Give up Paul and come out of the closet so that you too can be abused by one of you -CAVEMAN MENTALITY.

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July 22, 2008, 3:31 pm PDT

SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT

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To Paul and all others like him:

I really don't understand how you cannot fear the hand of Our Lord God Almighty!?! You may be having your fun here on earth but it is not going to be fun when you are burning continually in hell for the rest of eternity.

Yes Paul you may be very proud of the number of woman you slept with. Soo proud you kept a list. But Paul remember God Almighty is keeping a list too. I suggest you bring it to confession with you immediately!!

May God bless you and have mercy on you Paul and all the others like you!!!

Is the only reason you are a good person and believe in God is because you fear that if you're not, you'll burn in hell for eternity? I choose to be a good person not because of my fear of what God will do if I'm not. I'm a good person because I enjoy being that way. I don't need the fear of what will happen to me in the afterlife to motivate me to honest, kind, considerate, and respectful to others.

I believe we were put on this planet to experience and appreciate being alive. If there is an afterlife, I'll worry about that when I get there. But I'm not going to spend time in this life hoping for a better life after this one is over.

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July 22, 2008, 3:50 pm PDT

Simma down now.....

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To Paul and all others like him:

I really don't understand how you cannot fear the hand of Our Lord God Almighty!?! You may be having your fun here on earth but it is not going to be fun when you are burning continually in hell for the rest of eternity.

Yes Paul you may be very proud of the number of woman you slept with. Soo proud you kept a list. But Paul remember God Almighty is keeping a list too. I suggest you bring it to confession with you immediately!!

May God bless you and have mercy on you Paul and all the others like you!!!

Alright, settle down, it's Tuesday afternoon, not Sunday morning. JK! I agree that what these @ss hats are doing is wrong!!!! People like that MAKE ME SICK when I think about all the young inexperienced girls who might not know how to mentally defend themselves against people like them. MOMMAS TEACH YOUR BABY GIRLS PLEASE!! DADDYS PLEASE DO THE SAME!!!

But, here's my point, have any of ya'll ever actually known guys that are like that in real life? I feel sorry for them. I really do. They are the smallest, saddest, most insecure, most-in-need-of-some-serious-Dr. Phil people on the planet. Guys like that are dysfunction looking for a place to happen and the best the best thing you can do is to run far far away until they get some serious help because they are not worth one second of your time or one ounce of your peace!!

As for God, Heaven, Hell and Confession............. I firmly believe, whether in this life or the next, somewhere between Jesus, the Karma fairy, and the court of public opinion that everything you do comes back to you and always you reap what you sow. These guys, if they don't change, could end up with trophy wives who take all their money and leave them flat with nothing; maybe they'll get Hep C or HIV. Maybe they will exchange their lonely bitter insecure young men status for lonely bitter insecure old men status, perhaps all of the above. Regardless, if they don't change it won't be pretty, Heaven help the women in their path. And honestly, Heaven help these guys also; they need it.

Haha!! They are so notorious now, they will have to move to Antarctica to get a date :)

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Sex addict?

You're "scoring," but God is keeping score, too

I have kept a list of 83 women

07/22 Male Egos Out of Control

PAUL

SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT

Simma down now.....