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October 16, 2005, 12:16 am PDT

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I think being gay is genetic but not a good thing. I don't think it is normal or should ever be considered normal but a biological defect like mental illness. As so many people say they wouldn't choose it .  

A lot of people have experimented with bi-sexuality in their youth thinking gay sex is ok.  

I think if you are gay "that's nice" but I really don't care what you do in private.  I would like to know why so many married men go to parks to pay for sex with underage boys/ 

Homosexual folks are pretty consistent in populations world-wide. No matter what country you look at, which belief system people belong to, population size, and whatever other factors you can think of... it's always around 10% of the population that is homosexual. It is normal. Whether you like it or not, it's a natural thing to happen. It's not only a strictly human phenomenon either. Did you know that at certain temperatures you can make groups of male flies form long mating chains? Did you know that there are species of fish and other organisms that can alter their sex to accomodate their community? Ever seen a hermaphroditic banana slug mate with another of its kind, then watch them each chew off the other's penile projection so the other can't mate again? Nature is full of fun quirks, and homosexuality is one of them. 

  

So what if we don't know what causes it. We'll figure it out someday. Most scientists are split between whether it's caused by environmental pressures or genetic changes. Nature vs. nurture. Homosexuality is a fact of life, and for anyone to deny that is just completely silly.  

  

Even more silly is for someone to think that their beliefs should come before personal freedom, equality, and respect for our fellows. Marriage should be something that anyone can participate in. It's a union between two people who love each other. I know that's beside the point, but it is very important.  

 
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October 16, 2005, 6:15 am PDT

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I think being gay is genetic but not a good thing. I don't think it is normal or should ever be considered normal but a biological defect like mental illness. As so many people say they wouldn't choose it .  

A lot of people have experimented with bi-sexuality in their youth thinking gay sex is ok.  

I think if you are gay "that's nice" but I really don't care what you do in private.  I would like to know why so many married men go to parks to pay for sex with underage boys/ 

  Being gay is not gentic.  No Dr. has proven that unless they themselves are perverted.  Being gay is a choice.  You have the choice to do what you will. 

  

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October 16, 2005, 8:32 am PDT

10/19 "I'm Gay, OK?"

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I think being gay is genetic but not a good thing. I don't think it is normal or should ever be considered normal but a biological defect like mental illness. As so many people say they wouldn't choose it .  

A lot of people have experimented with bi-sexuality in their youth thinking gay sex is ok.  

I think if you are gay "that's nice" but I really don't care what you do in private.  I would like to know why so many married men go to parks to pay for sex with underage boys/ 

 Hi.  I don't think that homosexuality is genetic as you say, in the sense that it is passed down from father to child, etc. (there is really not much valid evidence to support that).  I also do not think it is a choice that you make either (in most cases).  I think it's a combination of some things going on in the brain, coupled (in some cases) with the environment that you grow up in. 
 

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October 17, 2005, 11:56 am PDT

10/19 "I'm Gay, OK?"

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I think being gay is genetic but not a good thing. I don't think it is normal or should ever be considered normal but a biological defect like mental illness. As so many people say they wouldn't choose it .  

A lot of people have experimented with bi-sexuality in their youth thinking gay sex is ok.  

I think if you are gay "that's nice" but I really don't care what you do in private.  I would like to know why so many married men go to parks to pay for sex with underage boys/ 

People like you saying that being gay (which is who they are) is wrong or "not a good thing" is the reason that gay men marry straight women and hide their true nature.  The reason men like that go to parks and pay for casual gay sex is because they are forced by our society to live a lie and that is the only outlet we allow them to enjoy who they really are. 

  

If we could simply accept that people are gay they would feel safe and comfortable living their authentic lives.  It would cause much less pain all around. 

 
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October 19, 2005, 7:49 am PDT

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I think being gay is genetic but not a good thing. I don't think it is normal or should ever be considered normal but a biological defect like mental illness. As so many people say they wouldn't choose it .  

A lot of people have experimented with bi-sexuality in their youth thinking gay sex is ok.  

I think if you are gay "that's nice" but I really don't care what you do in private.  I would like to know why so many married men go to parks to pay for sex with underage boys/ 

Is it ok for a straight man to go to parks to seek out underage girls? 

  

Your comment is quite ignorant and if you think this way you are very naive. 

  

I am not gay, nor do I know any gay people persoanlly, but what I can tell you is that being a pedophile is not the same thing as being gay. 

  

My x-husband who is very staright molested my daughter... he is a pedophile, not a gay person.. 

  

You need to do some research and get some knowledge. 

  

Just my two pennies. 

  

Tammy 

 
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October 19, 2005, 3:19 pm PDT

10/19 "I'm Gay, OK?"

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I think being gay is genetic but not a good thing. I don't think it is normal or should ever be considered normal but a biological defect like mental illness. As so many people say they wouldn't choose it .  

A lot of people have experimented with bi-sexuality in their youth thinking gay sex is ok.  

I think if you are gay "that's nice" but I really don't care what you do in private.  I would like to know why so many married men go to parks to pay for sex with underage boys/ 

Because a person is gay is not to say they are pedophiles, lets not get the two confused. 

Many married men who go on the low down and meet with other men to have sex are a product of society saying they can and should change so they decide early on to supress whats within and obviously you can't supress who you are and not pay a price some where down the road. 

 
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October 19, 2005, 6:28 pm PDT

10/19 "I'm Gay, OK?"

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I think being gay is genetic but not a good thing. I don't think it is normal or should ever be considered normal but a biological defect like mental illness. As so many people say they wouldn't choose it .  

A lot of people have experimented with bi-sexuality in their youth thinking gay sex is ok.  

I think if you are gay "that's nice" but I really don't care what you do in private.  I would like to know why so many married men go to parks to pay for sex with underage boys/ 

I'm glad there were enough replies to this to show the irrelavence between homosexuality and paedophilia and the antiquated idea that the two are connected. (Wake up and smell the century, folks! We don't burn witches or lobotomise epileptics either.) 

  

I would like to know why so many PEOPLE go ANYWHERE to have sex with ANYONE underage. (It's not just men, it's not just married men) but then on second thought, maybe I don't want to know. If I asked, they'd have to tell me and to be truthful, I would probably get sick. 

  

I DO agree with "I don't care what your orientation is, I just don't want to hear about it and that goes for heterosexuals. So many straights say "I don't care if you're gay but I don't want to hear about it." I don't want to hear about anyone's, straight, gay or otherwise. I'm of the mind that sex is a private thing, in spite of it being everywhere.  

 
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October 20, 2005, 6:46 am PDT

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I think being gay is genetic but not a good thing. I don't think it is normal or should ever be considered normal but a biological defect like mental illness. As so many people say they wouldn't choose it .  

A lot of people have experimented with bi-sexuality in their youth thinking gay sex is ok.  

I think if you are gay "that's nice" but I really don't care what you do in private.  I would like to know why so many married men go to parks to pay for sex with underage boys/ 

If you are gay, that's fine I don't hate you and I'm not scared of you.  However why would anyone gay or striaght want to put their sex life "out there" for the public  to see and hear about.  I am a straight married woman and I don't discuss my private life with anyone, and I don't want to discuss anyone else's private life either
 
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October 20, 2005, 9:59 pm PDT

10/19 "I'm Gay, OK?"

Quote From: riviera

I think being gay is genetic but not a good thing. I don't think it is normal or should ever be considered normal but a biological defect like mental illness. As so many people say they wouldn't choose it .  

A lot of people have experimented with bi-sexuality in their youth thinking gay sex is ok.  

I think if you are gay "that's nice" but I really don't care what you do in private.  I would like to know why so many married men go to parks to pay for sex with underage boys/ 

I would like to know why so many heterosexual marriages fail, why the divorce rate is over 50%, why so many heterosexual men prey on young girls, why they rape them and kill them. Why do heterosexuals do that?
 


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