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July 8, 2008, 3:47 pm PDT
07/08 Ask Dr. Phil
Quote From: benc789I think that the problem is that marriage vows need to be changed.
The man should be required to say that he vows never to have sex again (with his wife or any other woman) and, most importanly, never to complain about it. This would stop a lot of men from complaining later that they didn't realize that they had made a vow of celibacy.
It is amazing how a woman can not have sex with her husband for months and then be so shocked and upset that he is having an affair.
What is the problem anyways? If his wife didn't want to have sex with him, then why is she upset that another woman does? If his wife wants to be celibate, then why does he have to be as well? What vow of celibacy are you talking about?
You are aware that not all women by a LONG shot lose interest in sex right? Are you further aware that women have this problem with men often? Look at the sex boards on this website...lots of women complaining about lack of sex.
"It is amazing how a woman can not have sex with her husband for months
and then be so shocked and upset that he is having an affair."
It's amazing how people expect some honesty in their relationships. /sarcasm
Seriously, if a married person whats sex and their partner refuses then it's time to have a frank discussion, not time to run out and have sex with other people.
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