Topic : 02/13 Love Smart Island, Part 1

Yes there are women who are not looking for perfection!  

Russell,  

I hope you receive my message, Lorraine 

I just found this LOVE SMART message board and I am hoping to meet a good 80% match for me here with out having to pay so much money for the 'dating' sites- I do not have alot of money-In fact I already paid dearly- which led me to here- HELLO! 

I  am 41 years old- and I have a good strong loving heart- I do not want kids- I do not like the bar scene either-  I have long dark hair- hazel eyes and I  exercise to be healthy and to feel good emotionally and mentally- I like bowling, reading and among other things , watching baseball games-    

I am on a small income but that should not matter for I am financially responsible -always learning new ways to save and respect my money-I am a HUGE fan of SUZE ORMAN- and of Dr phil's of course!   I discovered him on Oprah a few years ago and hooked ever since-  I have several of his books-INCLUDING LOVE SMART- which is an AWESOME book!! 

I am an attractive woman-inside and out-  and I am serious about meeting some one who looks good- I mean he takes care of himself and has a loving heart-  I enjoy talking on the phone-emailing and visiting in person- we would have so much fun together-  I have alot of really cool ideas for dates and stuff to do together- we can help each other as well as learn from each other and develop a beautiful and strong relationship based on absolute 100% honesty and trust with beautiful mutual respect-  a good strong and healthy relationship base on STRONG AND DEEP communication is so important to me- I can't even tell you- AND PATIENCE- SSOO IMPORTANT!!!!!!!!!!! 

I have not had an easy life- but I have worked so hard to be where I am today - I am proud of myself !!!!!!!!!!!!!! 

I have so many amazing qualities that I would like to share with you-  I do not cheat or lie-I have been cheated on and lied to- I WILL NOT TOLERATE SOME ONE WHO LIES  TO ME NOR WILL I TOLERATE SOME ONE WITH A BAD TEMPER OR YELLING AT ME -  NOR WILL I PUT UP WITH PHYSICAL ABUSE OR SEXUAL ABUSE!! 

I like just about all kinds of music- and because I am slightly hard of hearing- I  can hear the music- but the words- I need a copy of- or if it moves you-like when we are on a date or a quiet evening at home- I can understand the words thru  your body language- all i need is a copy of the words- though.   i do like watching movies at home as well-  Hope you will join me.  I don't like horror movies. 

There is more to share-  I hope that a good-kind and gentle man will see this and please email me-  I have been searching for my soul mate since a young age and now it is time for you to search for me!!!SMILE-  I discovered something recently-  It  takes 2 to search for each other- I have done more than my fair share of searching- please search for me and I hope to hear from you very soon.   

Looking forward to meeting you-Alison  

PS:  I live in Washington state.   Many beautiful ( and inexpensive things we can do together as we get to know each other and grow into the most awesome relationship together !) 

I know there are SOME decent men that read this MB-  I wrote  a GREAT and HEART FELT and HONEST post a few weeks ago-LOOKING FOR LOVE IN ALL THE RIGHT PLACES

Did any one see this??

I am a rare gal to meet-  I say that out of confidence and strong self-worth- 

Well-  I hope the 'right guy'-  my soul mate sees my letter and hopefully will hear from you soon

Alison