Topic : 02/21 More Wifestyles

I'm on your side!  It isn't just you and Diana.  

Amy 

My marriage is healthier than it has ever been before.  My husband and I have gone 8 months without so much as a disagreement.  It is because I changed my attitude towards him.  I stopped resenting him and my choice to be a stay at home mom.  I began to give him attention and the respect that he deserves from all of the hard work that he puts into our family.  Respect absolutley should go both ways, but you seem to demand from the things I have read that you have posted.  I was not critical of Kelly, I simply stated the truth, which if you watched she validated the points that I made. 

I know this is going to sound extremely odd, considering there are almost 2500 messages posted to this one topic alone.  I am certainly no "pro" to message boards, but I have to say, this one is very difficult.  My problem is the extremely lenghty delay in the posting of each message.  By the time my message appears, there are so many other new messages, some of which may say the same thing, that it is beginning to feel like a waste of time.   

Don't get me wrong, I feel that the comments on this message board are very enlightening in many ways, both good and bad.  However, it would be much easier if each message could appear closer to real time, rather than 2-3 hours later.  At this rate, I don't know how anyone on this board has time to get anything done, least of all clean their homes.  (A little sarcasm, here!) 

I assume the main reason for the delay is so that the content of each message can be reviewed for offensive language and/or hurtful comments, but is that really necessary, as presumably, we are all adults?  And, after all,  if anything inappropriate is said, the person can be reported and I assume, removed from the board, right? 

Anyway, this is just one person's opinion, but I thought it worth mentioning.   

I must leave now.  Time to clean my house! 

Thanks 

We are ALL biased! Go read Life Strategies where Dr. Phil talks about there being no reality, just perception of reality. Our perceptions are based on so many factors, including personal experiences.   

I think Dr Phil could do a show on RIGHT FIGHTERS and pick his guests right from these message boards.  

I've only posted a few times, but if I have been nasty, judge mental, sarcastic, or just plain mean to anybody, I sincerely apologize. I really want to limit my words and behavior to those I would like my children to emulate.  I truly support all of you in your marriages and homes, and hope you will all do the same for me and each other. 

Julie 

That's the first step, changing your attitude.  Kudos to you., 

Diana 

lol. 

Ok, so for all you women out there who don't agree with respecting your husbands.... 

Wouldn't you rather have a happy husband who comes home at the end of the day and loves and appreciates you over a husband who becomes bitter and resentful because you choose to exercise your right to tell him to go pound sand when he asks you to do something? 

Diana 

Where were you guys after the last show??!!?? 

:)